First let me say...I LOVE being single. I have so much love for my family and friends I dont see myself ever loving only one person. With that said...I noticed, like most people, that I do in fact get lonely....but...I onyl get lonely when I have the time to be lonely. And I don't really know what I am momentarily lonely for. I am physically and emotionally satisfied but those feelings still creep in. Well my thoughts are...if I already have love and plenty of companions in my life...why the restlessness? Everyone says "you just need some one to love"...problem solved I love ALL people. Everyone says "you just need some one to love you"...problem solved, I have plenty of people who love me. But today, while sitting on my butt showing no production whatsoever, I think I figured it out. Despite the selfishness behind this next comment, I think what every person needs to know that there is one person in the world that loves them more then anyone else. For example,my mom loves my dad more then anyone in the world. He loves her more then anyone in the world. They do love me but NOT more then anyone in the world...does this make sense? If anyone can put this idea into better words, please do. I am very happy but still have that bit of unfufillment...I think I figured it out but I just cant word it! Does anyone know what I'm getting at?!?
i think i get what youre saying ....when two people are attracted to one another thats what they feed off of, its a confidence booster and its comforting knowing that youve got that person that is intresting in you, it goes both ways. the importance of this?? well this is how i see love, its an extreme....its a passion, like hate. you know when you get angry and say things in the heat of the momement that you dont really mean....well thats like love. you say and do things that you might not truly mean or might look back on with a diffrent mindframe because love is an extreme, it blinds and alters.
Yes...... you like being single and don't think you'll ever love just one person but, you think everyone needs someone that loves them more than anyone else correct? anyways, I like being single but I love having someone that I'm in love with, it's so warming
Interesting theory but don't know if it would hold true for EVERYONE because I think about open relationships and the like and can see people totally loving 2 people equally, as much as they possibly can love someone. don't know if i just made sense. I love being single too...it's just so natural. Even after 2 years being with my boyfriend, I still feel single. Which is a good thing, I think.
Do you feel like you need to find a deeper love? Something unpredictable, exciting and slightly dangerous? Like you have all you should need to get by but theres something not quite right.. something missing? I may be well off here....
yeh...I feel the need to give attention to the need for more. I feel like since I love others and have love, that's not what I'm missing...maybe the hard part is finding out what else I NEED as opposed to what I merely WANT.
