Married men : how often do you want sex

You are really lucky to have a wife who is also having the same lbido. Does she lead you every time to sex or do you start the sex session?

 

We are maarried for more than 25 yrs and we have sex at least twice or 3 times a week.

 

I should say If she likes sex I am fine, otherwise whenever I have a chance to wank off I do. I prefer to wank off together, but she doesn't like to masturbate or to see I do. Honestly, if she has enough libido, I defiantly prefer to fuck, but it is just once or twice in a month, which is not fine for me. I am not ganna to say I like to have sex every day, but 2 times a week is good satisfaction.

 

Angela36, please let me know what is your reaction if you see your partner is wanking off, and you don't like what he is doing?

 

To answer properly I would need to know what he could possibly be doing that I wouldn't like. But if I saw him I would probably ask if I could help in any way by using my body or by talking.

 

That is great, it is the best reaction of sex partners to get involved, and try to get close as much as possible to understand the other side sex needs. Sex is not just one-way road, it is a joint action. If both sides try to understand their sexual needs, they will have a happy and successful not only sex life but also in their relationship or marriage life too. I believe most of the conflict between a couple, arises from their bed. If they have a happy sex life there will not be any other important issues with them.

 

Agreed. If you can satisfy me sexually, I'm easy to please on all other subjects. But sexually I'm pretty demanding.

 

Sex demanding is not a problem, sex demand is unlimited it is like itching, as much as you itch you like more, so in some certain point, we should control it, otherwise, it is endless.

 

We do it both equally.

 

I agree with this 200%.

 

Let me see - frollicking, probably in the buff, with a pretty lady or watching a bunch of sweaty overpaid jocks play ball? Easy choice!

 

I'll second that motion.

 

Wow !..that's not an easy challenge...but i will certainly try my level best to please you sexually in every way possible my dear on the bed or wherever u wish to make out and turn you into a jellyfish after that if i could ...hehe

 

Agree with you my dear Angela...dunno much abt u ladies masturbating...how u gals do it or how satisfied r u all after wetting yr pussies ???...but for us guys, it works...relieves the lust for a while but then it happens again once we see or read something sexy...and there you are again, you will find us becum horny once again..and then if not fulfilled by a female partner, we will DIY and masturbate again to relieve our sexual tension

 

Yes, agree with u that in all things good or bad we shd control ourselves and not overdo it....moderation is the key word...but sometimes sexual tension once built up is very difficult to control it...once the horny machine is triggered u will feel the urge all the time until they are shot out....

 

I don't know these most guys. Lol. I thrive on my stamina and endurance. I get it all. Sports and sex as much as possible on the weekend. I think this is where men forget that some women want that constant sexual attention and take the relationship for granted. You may not like me for one reason or another but it will NEVER be from lack of sex or sexual activity!

 

If she sees my hands are in my pants OR I'm just touching it while sitting down, she drops to her knees and sucks my dick. I love it. I can't speak for most guys but my hands always go to my dick when I'm sitting watching TV. I don't do it intentionally to get head. She's been this way since the first time she gave me head. Feels I have no reason to touch it because it is hers. LMAO. I'll take it.

 

Yea hands in pants must be a dead giveaway. I'd probably do the same thing.