Threesome with a close friend?

Robert B, Is the friend in a relationship, or single? My wife ruled out close friends, just to be discrete. Do you plan on this being a regular. or 1 time thing. Hope it works out.

 

A "lay" minister? Sounds perfect!
Becky, don't be afraid. It's like he's laying hands on you but much better. It's certainly not dirty under any circumstances and it's not sinful if your husband is willingly sharing you and you don't "spill his seed". That means his cum needs to enter your body - like cumming in your pussy or you swallow it or rub it into your skin without wiping it off.
I encourage you to listen to your husband and take Ben into you and share the love. It will please God and strengthen your bond with your husband. You just have to remember your husband's desires take precedence over Ben's and your husband needs to know about and approve all your extramarital activities. Go with God! Enjoy the beautiful creation He has gifted us.

 

Jim, he's single but has two children. He's a great guy, and does marital and premarital counseling. Becky's never been with anyone but me, and I think this will help her. She has self esteem issues related to her weight. She's let Ben kiss her a couple of times, and last weekend he got her top and bra off. He's coming over tomorrow night, and I think she'll let him.

 

This is just what Ben's told her.

 

This just seems so convoluted and conflicting. You're considering sharing your wife with a "minister"? So many things could go wrong. His kids find out.....his congregation finds out? Is this idea science fiction? He's a fake! If our church or family found out about our MFMs our worlds would be rocked!

If you still want to share your wife find someone else. We've had several MFMs with a very close and long time friend. No way anyone was going to find out. All of our experiences were great. But something about a minister banging your wife is just creepy.

 

C'mon man! Hehe Seriously. Let them enjoy themselves. It's all consensual and desired. Nobody beyond those involved needs to "find out". Ministers make house calls all the time. They don't even need a cover. He's there on a mission to minister to their needs. He's not taking advantage of his authority or anyone, he's helping to boost her sense of self worth. We need to adjust our attitudes to reflect that God is love; good and evil is really about helping others versus hurting others.

 

He's a great guy, and he's coming over tonight. He really cares about Becky, and we both trust him.

 

My wife and I want to have a threesome. Once I lose some more weight and this pandemic is over, I plan on doing some serious searching for a bisexual boyfriend. Wife already knows I want more than just sex with another man. I also have no problems with her being emotionally attached to somebody else. We both want to see each other have sex with other men. Apart from that, I am pretty much gay at this point so it would be nice to find someone that she can get with separately too. Win, win, win.

 

That sounds very good and I look forward to read more news how things turn out.

 

Becky's ok, she spent the night with Ben and is resting now. I'll be back with more tonight.

 

Becky is pregnant, and were sure that Ben is the daddy. Shes scared, but this baby will be a gift from God.

 

You know what, so what, I say just let people have their lives and fantasies. If we were to question every claim from every individual on here then we'd be calling bs all the time. That would be a less pleasant shit show than all the weird claims.

I mean, if you can criticize it constructively then that's a different story. Let's just imagine the scenario playing out. I give it a 5% odds Robert stays with Becky, provides a decent living, dedicates all his non-working time to loving and developing the children, becoming a beloved grandfather, etc. That's probably generous on the odds. I'd give 95% odds that the situation came to this point as a result of mental instability and/or deficiency. So more than likely, they probably don't need to wear shades. What I find most bothersome about the scenario is that the kids are likely to grow up with complexes, relying on the productive taxpayers to support their unorthodox lifestyle, and grow up to vote for extended government handouts and a perpetuating of this destructive lifestyle.

So hopefully you're right, it's all in his mind.
But it's just hope.

 

I didn't realize you knew him that well.

 

We've done it. Some do's and don'ts. All is well

 

The only times I was involved with a threesome with a close friend was a friend of my SO.
I didn't want my close friends involved like that. I always took the easy way, letting my SO find threesome partners.

 

never did that although i did watch them have sex but never joined in

 

We have had 3somes with a handful of friends throughout our relationship and marriage. It all started sort of slowly back in our young rebellious stage (early 20s).
We used to go to Philly just about every weekend to a rave party so the core group of us would come back to our apartment and finish the night off with a little ecstasy (90s pills were real deal)...Well for a few months it started off with massages along with our clothes coming off (my wife was always first) then one night my wife and I started chatting about how we should just party one time with our one friend (basically was brother from another mother). So we started saying how hot it would be if she sat naked between us on the couch with one leg on each of us spread out....well when we had the opportunity it was if we all had the same idea.....that was the beginning of our swinging days! That being said we had over a handful of wonderful 3somes together with no extra drama or feelings....You really have to just talk about it and lay it all out on the table. My thing is if you can't discuss it together or not come to a sensible conclusion. Also if there is any sense of awkwardness with either of you then don't do it.....have fun!

 

I Love fucking my friend on the couch while hubby Watches!