How many times has your Heart been broken???

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  1. squawkers7

    squawkers7 radical rebel

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    Twice...by 2 guys. It will still hurt sometimes if I think about different things sometimes and it's been YEARS.
     
  2. see in blonde

    see in blonde Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Once. it happened over a year ago, and I have gotten to the point where I don't drink a bottle of whiskey or eat pills to escape my memory, but I'm starting to think I will never let myself love another girl. likewise, I am not sure I want to love another girl. Who knows what will happen in the future though. I haven't severely hurt anyone, but I think I have hurt some girls just because I am a loner with trust issues. I have only dated three girls since "the night", and I did this to two of them. The other one turned out to be a lying, psycho bitch. But what I tend to do is connect with a nice girl usually, but definitely not by trying or leading her on. So we will share looks, conversation, dinner, stuff like that. Then I either won't open up, or I don't want to "corrupt" a nice wholesome girl since I am not the pretty boy/frat boy type. I drink, go on spontaneous snowboard trips, smoke pot, have a loud fucking mustang that I used to streetrace for cash, cuss, etc. So while my intentions are always good, I think something like she would be better off finding some ivy league guy that wears cardigans. So then I distance myself or just fall off the face of the earth. Since I did that to some girls in highschool, all of them started calling me the untouchable. Who knows, maybe they were right.
     
  3. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    okay, now that I look back... once and it can still get to me, sometimes. :p
     
  4. SilverClover14

    SilverClover14 Senior Member

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    Bigtime heartbreaks have been 2... once a boyfriend and once a best friend who i thought loved me and just wasn't ready for a relationship. I hate boys. :p

    A few minor heartbreaks other than that, but not bad.

    I don't know how many hearts I've broken. I can think a few guys who cried when I broke up with them, but I don't think I've ever truely devestated anyone, thank God.
     
  5. Heaven

    Heaven Senior Member

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    too often
     
  6. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    Broken, only once, but he fixed it.

    I think I've broken another (my ex husband)

    others have hurt me, but that was more of an ego thing.
     
  7. lorelai_g87

    lorelai_g87 Senior Member

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    I've been only with a guy and I'm still with him, so my answer is "never"
     
  8. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Many times, in a way.. by one guy.
     
  9. mebesideme

    mebesideme Member

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    I have had three bad splits, that kind of thing where you lose touch with the world for a few months, lost in a fog almost. Then you come out one day and realize it didn't really matter that much.
     
  10. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

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    It's still beating.........so I guess its not broken yet.

    I have felt very sad after 2 break ups, the 1st one I called it off, and the 2nd one, she did, and they both hurt.
    But I didn't have a clue, that was nothing, like comparing a spark from a bic lighter, to a lightning bolt, that is about the difference between those two times, and last year's little test of my heart. I'd say it's been breaking for 6 days short of a year now, but it hasn't completely broken quite yet.....but man alive..........I thought those two previous things hurt..........ha ha ha, was I stupid or what........not a clue.........I hurt in 1993 when my mom died, but even that doesn't compare, 'love you mom'. It just doesn't.
     
  11. _see_

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    its been stamped on a few times...i broke my first loves heart but not intentially...i had to end it bcos he moved faaaaar away...i would rather him be happy where he is with someone else then stay with me and be miserable bcos we couldnt see each other...it was for the best and i didnt do it horribly...but in some weird way god must be making me pay for it bcos my love life hasnt been running to smoothly
     
  12. Adgreyga

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    lets see, ive been heartbroken a/b 2 or 3 real times, but ive never made a real commitment so the break resolved in a few weeks.
    but i am in the process now, im seriously getting ready to have my heart broken bad in a couple of weeks..:(
     
  13. mysti

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    my heart has been broken severely like maybe 15-20 times, mostly by the same guy:(
    not severely so many times i cant count.
     
  14. Barbuchon

    Barbuchon Member

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    I've been broken heart 3 times
    I've broke hearts 5 times
     
  15. fulmah

    fulmah Chaser of Muses

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    I'm with Blackguard; I would've said 3 times up until about a year and a half ago; but until then I didn't know what heartbreak was. I'm lucky to be alive and almost over it.
     
  16. Lonely Goatherd

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    My heart breaks every day over a mistake a made over 10 years ago. Actually, depending on how you look at it, it was either numerous, numerous mistakes, or one really big mistake. And it wasn't what I did do, but what I didn't. Take it from me, if you have the chance of a lifetime, DON'T blow it.
     
  17. Cheshipillar

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    got my heart broken? twice, from the same person

    i dont think ive ever broken anyones heart coz i wan't really in any other relationships beside the 4 year one that broke my heart.

    but my mom has told me that i have broken her heart by things i did in my youth..

    yeah. it really rocks :rolleyes:
     
  18. Zeitgeist

    Zeitgeist Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I had it pretty bad when a very early boyfriend broke up with me and couldn't give a reason for it...I was 14 or something. After that, I learnt that relationships weren't the be all and end all at my age, so now I get hurt but I've never been in a relationship or had feelings for someone so meaningful that my heart has been broken.

    Having said that, I'm very close to it right now :(
     
  19. iscreamchocolate

    iscreamchocolate Senior Member

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    who gives a shit how many times my heart is broken the point is is that it was broken in the first place.
     
  20. hnugginbuggin

    hnugginbuggin Member

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    1st time: couldn't eat or sleep for a week, and felt heartbroke for about a month


    2nd time: my heart hurt so bad physically...oh how that hurt...

    presently: his heart is breaking and he's dragging me down with him...
     

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