I love stats like this. I don’t challenge what’s said, but there is a massive presupposition/deletion. Something like this: “of the guys that are demonstrating value by being in shape and broadly attractive and well groomed and have a sparkle in their eye and look like they’re doing something epic/fun/interesting .... as women get older,...”.
I'm sure you are right. A guy or woman that doesn't care of them self's other with watching their Weight or personal grooming and hygiene will always be less attractive. If you don't care about you or how you look how can you expect others to look at you in "that" way.
That is spot on . I did use something like that when I used to run a fitness and diet thread on another forum . A lot of people mainly women who contributed in that thread lacked body confidence because of their weight/shape. The first thing I always said to them is that you have got to love your own body and self first before you can expect others to do it .We can work together to help achieve this .
i like the patterns in the colors of the fur of many felids and mustalids, much more then the sadly limited diversity of humans. red pandas are one example, but there are many many others.