Congrats to you for exposing your desires to your wife and "kudos" to your wife for being understanding and supportive. Most women can't or couldn't accept it. I told my present wife (7 years) of my bisexuality within the first month of dating and that I've had a male lover for two years. She was overwhelmingly accepting and understanding towards my sexuality. It wasn't a total shock to her, but it certainly wasn't something she expected to have me tell her either. She's come to know my lover, actually he's "OUR" lover now along with his wife. Our relationship has bonded closer and stronger having told her of my sexual desires as she's been welcoming to partaking in MMF threesomes and the occasional MMFF foursome. Both of our marriages (his and mine) have flourished in more positive ways than either of us have ever expected.
Lowhangers - thanks for the support and encouragement. It’s fantastic to hear how things have worked out for you. For me, I’m not sure where I’m going with my explorations but I know my wife will support me. It took only a small leap of faith to tell her as she is very open-minded and I knew she’d rather know than not know. I’ll pass on the kudos!
Sounds a lot like my own situation. Similar with a couple differences. Wife knows, not completely on board, somewhere between acceptance and approval. But not a deal breaker. My being bi is "the thing she wishes she could pray away", or simply wishes would go away.
I could not raise this with mine, I have not dipped in the Bi pool physically yet. I'm only reading and watching porn, maybe I've always been curious, curious enough to think it's worth trying one of you feel the need. Maybe it's not worth the hassle of telling her or what might come of it. Of I had opportunity to test the water discretely I might without causing waves. I might walk away satisfied or pursue more. She know if like butt play but is not one to initiate it regularly like rarely, it's just a sexual act and if she is not doing it then maybe a real life experience is worth exploring.
My wife knew about my bisexuality and pushed the subject, she found guys for us to have threesomes with. Our most common situation was a guy who was taller more handsome and had a bigger cock. Those early threesomes led me to feel submissive and inferior, I would agree to anything she suggested. She was looking in my eyes and telling me how turned on she was the first time a guy fucked my ass. He reached around and masturbated me slowly as he fucked me and my wife commented and rubbed her pussy till she came. The next time the three of us got together my wife invited three of her girlfriends to watch. I was beyond embarrassed and humiliated, but I did it and realized how turned on I was at being fucked like that and jerked off with an audience.
Wow, that sounds hot. How did she approach this with the girlfriends? Like hey do you want to watch my partner take it up the ass? Sounds like they must be really open minded or had some down and dirty conversations on girls night. I would try most things now but she won't, having an audience just seems like another kinky thing to try or even being the audience in real life could be fun, Fucking the same person for a long time can make the mind wander
My wife is more then curious about fmf.....she has them often and at times I'm not one of the males..............."love her"
Believe it or not my wife did the same thing once she knew I was bi. partly for me and partly so she could see me. It turned out real hot for me and my wife! Our whole sex life changed then!
I still remember my wife watching me her eye's almost popped out but with a smile. ................lol