I was curious if there are women that sometimes or often ask or expect the guy to pull out before they finish and finish in their mouth. I could for instance imagine you'd want to do that if you're get a rash from sperm in your vagina or you don't want to be dripping. Or simply because you like it more?
When I was young I think most of the girls I was with did not prefer it in their mouth. Maybe a few. Now I think it's the opposite and they either prefer it there or at least don't mind. Just ask ahead of time or do the quick tap on the head if you're not sure that she knows you're close. Most women who suck know when you're going to pop and if they don't want it there, they'll pull off.
Mostly it is because it’s to turn me on. I love it when a girl tastes herself on my dick and watching her swallow my load..
Girls like the taste of pussy as much as men. This is kind of a kink for me, my hs gf wasn’t on the pill we used the pullout method so I always finished in her mouth. Ive found if you tell your partner this is something you really enjoy they are happy to please you.
If my wife is giving me oral and I'm about to organize ill tell her and ask her where she would like me to come. She will either say where ever I want but will usually say in her mouth and she swallows
A long time friend...who I never fooled around with...told me that she always believed it was rude to NOT accept his orgasm in her mouth. To do so was an act of rejection. I get the impression she doesn't really like it there but if it's JUST a blowjob, then that's where it belongs.
That's kinda what I meant in my post. My friend expects that her blowjob will deliver her mans ejaculation into her mouth and she never would dream of asking him to put it somewhere else. Regular sex I think she gets it where he leaves it although she says she likes it splashed on her ass. I don't think she gets it in her mouth much, if at all, when they do regular sex. I can ask her though..
That is why ask explicitly in this topic. Most women (at least here) don't mind or even want to have blowjobs finished in their mouth. My question is specific about finishing in their mouths after penetrative sex. I don't think that is very common.
I've certainly done it but thinking back, it was an offering for a good, warm drop spot so that I would pull out. Or maybe I had to ask once or twice...like it started as a hand job...turned into a blowjob....turned into her sitting on it but went back to a blowjob.
I once read from a couple who used to do it every time, but it does seem rare. I think I'd like to have it often, but probably not always.
I’ll add that this girl I messed around with was married and would never let her husband cum in her mouth.
About the not coming in mouth thing? I was 27 working in an advertising agency, on of the girls (married) in another department and I started flirting then sometimes staying late and fucking in one of the bosses offices. She and her gf, a nice looking legal secretary who was in the process of divorcing, came by my house and woke me up unexpectedly one Saturday morning. I just had a sheet wrapped around me and didn't have much furniture, so we all sat on the bed and talked. My friend said she'd left something in the car and went out. Catching the hint I lay back and pulled her gf, still dressed, down next to me. Her hand immediately went under the sheet to my dick. Apparently they'd talked. She handled it for a minute, looked at it, then put her mouth on it like a hungry calf on a teat. Her friend came back in another room, so she stopped sucking me and said, "My husband doesn't like me to do that." (What?) They left. The next weekend the four of us had dinner at the couple's house and after, she and I went and lay down on the carpet in another room. Hand straight to my zipper, dick out, mouth attached. The hungry calf thing again. I didn't know if she'd ever had a man come in her mouth, so I warned her I was getting close. There was only, 'mmmm'. When I came she kept on sucking and held on 'til I got soft! We fucked weekly for about two months until I got a job in another city. Eight years later found out she was then assistant District Attorney in the city I'd moved to!
There is no place better for me to cum in than in my sex partners mouth during a good blowjob. I much prefer to cum in my partners mouth than anywhere else.
When I feel I'm about to finish, I prefer to leave it where it is. Unless she wants me to blast her in her face, on her tits or in her mouth, then I'll do it. It's more important for me to make sure she gets satisfaction.