Just like with all things some people are more aggressive than others. We enjoy a rougher sex life, hair pulling and face fucking are just a couple things that we enjoy. Talking to your partner openly and honestly about your wants and needs can work wonders, opening a pathway more pleasurable for you both.
I love this too. Being forced to gag is such a turn on for me. Especially when I try to look up at him but can't see him clearly, because my eyes are watering so much. Even better if there is 2 men taking it in turns.