Im not sure about this...

My problem is that soon it will be my first time with this love of mine and Im not sure what is the woman's role in this act. I mean Ive done quite a lot of stuff around but not the actual penetration yet. My question is what do girls do when they have sex, do they just lay there or..? I saw porn once, a part of it, but i don't think thats what its like. I know it should come to me naturaly and my love will also know everything but still I would like to have a general idea before it happens...

 

Ummmm... how about doing whatever it is that you feel like doing?

 

Dont just lay there...that will ensure you to have a horrible first expierence. Do things you are curious about, things your partner likes...

 

please, please, don't just lay there. Have you ever herd the expression "like a cold fish" Making love is supposed to be a two sided affair. I had a GF that used to just lay there and it drove me nuts. Took me months to get her to actively engage in sex. But then it was all good.

 

Just say "Is this it?" or "So this is what all the talk is about?" or "Are we having fun yet?"

That'd be funny

 

Get on top and ride the cock.

 

Tell him to go slow especially since this is your first time. It might sting. For some girls its diffrent.For some girls penetration doesnt hurt for others it does.my advice to you is to make sure your very wet because more friction can cause more pain.Note:your legs might be sore later. Wrap your legs around his waist and if you get comfortable enough and your flexible enough lift your legs over his shoulders,that also gives you deeper penetration so its a move you should try once you get used to it, and move your body with his.

 

yup