Husband may be loosing desires.

I'll be 65 later this year and no way is once every two days overtaxing. Did you just make that up? Or do you have something scientific to cite?

 

First off, I don't make shit up. Never have and never will, as long as I have my wits about me.
I've read doctors and health advocates warning us as we get older to prize our energy and sperm. The concept was that the body needs the energy to keep up other functions including the immune system. Seemed like credible sources and explanations at the time, I didn't retain the specifics. If I run across something I'll post it. If you're comfortable cumming every two days by all means continue. I can, but I "bought into it" and feel better waiting four to ten days. That's after spending decades cumming daily, no regrets. Meanwhile you might consider doing your own search for actual research on the topic. Just in case. Better safe than sorry.

 

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3-4 times a week is a nice amount. I totally agree with you. My wife thinks that amount is high. Ugh

 

I think it sounds reasonable. Hubs is ok with 1 or MAYBE 2.

 

That's the norm. It happens, but seemingly pretty rare, that the woman's desire is for greater frequency. Biologically she's driven to copulate around ovulation. Many get pretty needy then. My guess is that the desire reduces at other times to encourage the male to seek eager females. Maximize the odds of species survival. Civilization is where the ruling class dictates that one male only mate with one female. They don't want their women enjoying the phalluses of the peasantry for the reasons which should be evident.

 

I think in those cases where the husband can't or won't supply her needs, that he should encourage his woman to seek additional relief elsewhere.

 

I agree but sadly that won’t happen in my case.

 

I let her know too, she gets super turned on when I let her know when I need to release ti her

 

Morning. I bet that he has more energy and interest in the mornings than at the evening.

 

My absolute favorite time is in the morning..

 

Mine too. It works better and you get to carry it throughout the day.

 

Yes... I don’t like washing the cum off of me. I enjoy the smell and the wetness.

 

I am 75 and my health issues have precluded intercourse for the last 7 years. I still enjoy oral and manual stimulation for my wife. But we both know it’s not the same as sexual intercourse. So we have discussed the FWB idea and if a safe, stimulating partner becomes available....My wife keeps in shape and has a high libido. From an experience many years ago, I learned that she will not turn into a pumpkin is she has sex with another man!

 

That's so sexy! I love to eat pussy later in the day that's been fucked in the morning. Or following day. It's so naturally delicious and makes me horny as hell. The whole cleanup thing is dumb to me. It's self-cleaning!

 

Reading back through this thread something struck me as a possibility. It could be husband is being saturated by sexual innuendo. Having a braless, nude, in shape woman who likes porn at his side may be taking away the anticipation, the want, the desire. The bronze statues and willingness to fuck at a moments notice might be putting him at the saturation point. The sex environment has become commonplace and he has it around him all the time. Quietly change the bedroom décor to eliminate the sex objects. Not all at once but over time put them away. Dress a little more subdued and pull back from the innuendo. Take away the sex and he may start wanting it more since it isn't as readily available. I do this to myself every now and then. I can't live without having sex in my life but I take time to slow it down. I stop masturbating daily, slow up on the porn, even abstain from having sex with women for a month or two. If I do this for a few months I become horny as hell and wonder what I have been missing. Then it's back at it and loving all that is about sex again.

 

Absence makes the heart grow fonder???

Interesting take, it wouldn't work on me personally -- but it takes all kinds, both within the big city kinda folks and the rural kinda folks. Mostly in terms of how much they think for themselves vs hopping on the bandwagon. That's how I see it anyway. The more subject one is to latch onto the opinions of others, the less free and independent they are to set their own standards and question popular notions. The ones who realize that the world is full of propaganda campaigns are more able filter through the bombardment. How does this relate?

If one is of the mindset to create one's own standards then one's reference point is calibrated to their standard. Nudity and innuendo take on their normality against that reference. If one has the insight to create their own world, so to speak, then they're unlikely to be saturated by their own norm. Yes, I'm speaking only from personal experience and my own way of looking at things and I make no claim to apply this to averages but the way I see it is that some people are driven to live more "edgy" (for lack of a better term coming to mind) to make life more interesting. I'd postulate that kind of person has a lower threshold to excesses than those more conforming to the oppression of others. I could be wrong but my gut tells me otherwise.

Alcohol presents a challenge similar in some aspects. Some people can't keep it in the house because it gets consumed. Others keep an ample supply in direct view within easy reach and consume moderately. To me it boils down to how much in control of themselves they are.
Being in control of oneself allows desirable things to be present without concern for issues of consumption. I advocate for the development of self control rather than the elimination of temptation.