Men being hit on by men

I know. Had 2 at once before. That was fun

 

It sure is

 

Sounds like a wonderful moment, just the way I would like to meet another man, I would have also forgotten to get a number, lol

 

I have been hit on by men many times simply because I have been wearing very skimpy or revealing clothes that could easily be considered as gay or because I have been cross-dressed in public. It used to happen more when I worked in nightclubs as a nearly-nude or nude waiter or in drag on drag nights. It's just the same as anyone hitting on anyone else, all a bit of fun, a polite no doesn't mean everyone can still have a laugh about it and be friends.

 

I was flattered and caught off guard lol

 

Is there a way I could dress and/or carry myself to invite being hit on without being obvious to my straight world?

 

That is a good question, I am curious too. I think I would like to explore it but my friends and acquaintances are all straight or at least appear to be and it's a small town. I don't feel comfortable going out with my butt crack showing. I have a platonic relationship with a wonderful lady but want more and she is not interested. I am a senior if that makes a difference.

 

When I was young it happed quite often as I hung out with one group of people that were very hip back in the seventies. Several I this group owned hair salons, they had money and great parties.
Later in my thirties on occasion guys from businesses I sold to would get themselves into position to spend time with me in order to explore the opportunity. Those were few and far between. The best one was a guy from our California operation, he was a really attractive guy and we just became friends quickly and easily. It was like he could read my mind or knew somehow that I had a relationship in my past. We were both married and he told he knew that he and I had something from our past in common. He was mesmerizing, we had to spend a good bit of time in his office that week and he had me looking forward to re-visiting my bi side. I would get hard every time we were alone in that office. The last night I was there a few of the team were going out to dinner and he and I planned to get together back at my hotel. He canceled at the last minute due to having to pickup his daughter due to some issue coming up with his wife.

 

I was conscious of guys that were interested in me at a young age. My childhood friend and I got started at a sleep over. We were all talking about any contact we had with girlfriends except him. We talked about how we felt them up at movie theatre’s. Once the host was asleep my friend moved over close to me on the floor and started asking me to tell him more. I was in my tighty whites and he reached over asking if it felt like this as he ran his hand gently up my thigh, I told him it did. He felt me up over my underwear a while and I just didn’t want to stop him. He slid his hand under the waist band and I was already hard and he just teased my dick and balls. The host stirred in his sleeping bag and we stopped.
The next afternoon my friend called telling me he was home alone. Even though I felt guilty about what happened I was off to his house five doors down and we were naked in minutes. All summer we would get together and jerk each other off.
I thought a lot about the way he acted toward me before the first encounter and noticed through HS that several friends were similar. Always trying to get to be closer friends, not sure if they were wanting that but just wondered. Once I was out of HS I was immediately going to bars and meeting a lot of new people that were a few years older than me. I was lucky in the gene pool and was always popular and had lots of friends. I never took advantage of the guys that would at some point come on to me. I had too many girls always after me. Although my childhood friend and I did renew the exploits just before graduation. He was one of my fuck buddies as we called them in the seventies. No one ever knew about us and a bit after that he told me he was not interested in girls at all. I was his only outlet for about 5 years till he met a guy. I wish I had hooked up with a few more back then but the stigma was overwhelming.