hey all, i have a dilemma here. ive been gay or at least bi-curious for just about 7 years now. im a senior in high school and ive got a dilemma here. were about to finish the year and im really attracted to one of my friends who i talk to frequently. i wanted to ask him if he would let me feel him up for like ten minutes. im not sure if i want to ask him because i dont want him to react the wrong way, im still a virgin and i would be so happy if he let me feel him up for ten minutes just to see what it feels like. do you guys have any suggestions on how i should ask him and what i should do? thanks.
I wouldn't go about it quite exactly like that. You should gauge his reaction on gay guys and homosexuality first to be able to predict how he might react. then if you have reason to believe he might not be averse to experimenting with another guy, the way to go is not just flat out ask him "hey man, can I feel you up for like 10 minutes?" --see it sounds ridiculous. But the thing to do is create a comfortable environment where you two are alone, then, just sit closer to him than necessary, see if he's comfortable with that, and after a while you can brush your leg up against his and leave it there, and if he's still comfortable at one point you can just set your hand down on his thigh and touch him, and see how he reacts to that. something along those lines would be my advice.
IT'S KINDA SIMPLE you go tell him you have a problem, some guy whom you have known a while is hitting on you, and you wonder if he has any advice to give
