Look or Brain?

What is more important to you? The way a man looks or his charakter (intellect etc.)?
How does a man see this item?
I made the experience, that for them the look wins.

 

i think brins (in women) are very sexy!!

 

hahaa....i can't even spell brains....guess i'm lost for brains and looks!!:&

 

It's not really brains. Its attitude. A guy doesn't have to be super smart to have a really cool 'tude and that's what attracts me.

 

Its sense of humor for me... They have to make me laugh... A person can become 10 more sexy if they have a great personality and a really hot guy can become totaly ugly if they have crap for personality

 

I'm all about the personality. I mean sure, if a guy was discusting looking then that wouldn't be attractive, but I've met very, very, very few guys that could be put under that categorey. Hot guys to me aren't hot because their body is hot, they're hot because their mind is hot (if that makes any sense).

 

Both matter equally. I'd never be satisfied with an ugly genius or a beautiful idiot. I'll go for very intelligent and somewhat attractive, like myself.

 

beauty is in the eye of the beholder....and personality is what makes you stick around!

 

He's gotta have it all! In my eyes anyway. I mean he has to be cute to me and have a compatible personality

 

Generally looks attract me first. Then whether or not they have a brain dictates how long I stay attracted . Although I agree that sometimes if the guy has an amazing personality, that can catch my "eye" first and I'm caught, hook, line, and sinker. With my husband, he was a bit shy when I first met him, but I was definitely physically attracted to him. Once I started getting to know him, he had the good looks, the great personality (including great sense of humor), and the brains.

I have been attracted to people who aren't necessarily eye catching at first, just because of a personality trait I like though.

And I have certainly been attracted to some bimbos that eventually drove me nuts with their complete lack of sense.

 

Exactly! Yes, a great appearance will make me look first. But a great personality is more likely to get me flirting with them. A lot of gorgeous guys can be so arrogant it hurts (big difference between confidence and arrogance). Smart guys can be grand, but they can also be arrogant about their mental superiority to others. A balancing point is great, or at least modest about their assets.

 

for me nothing is more unsexy than a man that is ditzy. of course you can`t stay with anyone that is ugly in your eyes. but a man doesn`t have to look like Orlando Bloom i need a man, who shares my interests, i have good talks with , who is close to me as a person and in things concerning love. loving means to see someone like god wanted him to be.

 

Looks matter at first - but everyone is attracted to something different and I'm definatley not attracted to society's idea of the perfect guy - ( i like em dredded and tatted) but I do generally go for the same "type". Also, we need to have some key things in common. But then of course it's all about the personality. I'm sure I can speak for alot of people when I say I've known guys that were physically attractive but after getting to know them I wasn't attracted to them at all. And vice versa. I remember a guy I knew, when I had met him I didn't think he was good looking at all! I mean, quite the opposite. But he was my roomate for a little while and I really got to know him well and after a little bit he became "cute" and after a while I was totally attracted to him.

 

I go for a personality because the idoits drive me nuts. Actually wait! I go for guys that have a peronality and who care about having a shower. Not to say I know alot of guys who don't, but personal hygiene is not a "suggest". Other then being a complete idoit that's the number one thing that turns me off a guy.

 

I go for looks first & looks are a big deal to me. I'm obsessed with my bf of 4 1/2 yrs. I like brains and personality though too. Actually, one of my big draws to men is when they are really cocky, but have resaon to be-that is so hot...

 

the more attracted i am to someone's personality, the more physically attractive they become

 

Heh, I lost my virginity to the ditziest guy I've ever known. Not to mention he was full of himself. Unfortunately, I was caught up in his outward appearance at that age...glad I grew out of that...I think he helped me along actually. By the time we "broke up", I just did not find him attractive anymore....oh lordy no...boy was he ugly......even though when we met I thought he was amazingly hot!

 

surley it depends how much they have in their wallet or at least their future earning potential.
Who wants an intelligent hunk if he can't pay the bills, buy me stuff, give , give and give me material possesions and behave like the subservient idiot he should do to someone as superior as myself.
Men are pathetic specimens and a prostitute is the same to them in bed as a wife.
Money is the only use that men have - get your hooks in fast , marry the sad bastards and then just do what the fuck you want - there's always a fit bodied postman around when the sad husband's at work paying for you (desperate dogs) - god gave men penises so women could abuse them!
I love abuse!

 

haha

well my last two boyfriends (including my now husband) both lost their jobs in the beginnings of our relationships, but I stayed and took THEM on dates and didn't care, just enjoyed the company. The first one was a bum, but I was going to marry him anyway, until he cheated. I told hubby I would marry him way before he got his steady job w/ the airforce...or had even though about it. Money don't mean shit over LOVE

 

I've had two boyfriends. the first one was really brainy and quite wierd looking. but it was love. i stupidly ended it for a fling with a good looking guy, he was a bad one, the type that only wants what he can't have. grrr. then i found a gorgeous dimwit who had a good vocab. he fooled me for a long time...or i pretended he wasn't as stupid as everyone said..haha. he was. and i'm a wreck now because the whole two years was a lie... brains all the way!! hooray for brains!