I started keeping a list of all the girls I've had sex with when I was in high school. I probably forgot about quite a few that I had sex with before I started the list but it's pretty accurate. I will most likely pass 500 girls by the end of this year which feels like a nice accomplishment.
I remember all 16 girl's that I've been with, I've never kept a list because if I'm having sex with them I'm never likely to forget them, I've had 4 serious relationships, 3 casual relationships, and 9 one night stands, and I do remember all 16 names.
My wife tells me about a one night stand she had in her early 20's. It was with a black guy who turned out to be very well endowed. I love the details of the great sex she had but what turns me on the most is her not remembering the guys name.
I can't really put a number on it. In the beginning when I was younger I partied pretty hard. There were some questionable encounters that I have very little recollection on. I'm sure there is a number in there somewhere but I couldn't tell you what it was. Sober numbers I can probably sit down and figure it out. But I bet you I can recall every single one of them.
I have too many to keep track of completely. I remember the worst and best, the ones in between are the ones that get forgotten. I include anyone i have had sexual contact with. I went throigh a phase of going with men as well as girls. I have done just about everything with men and women. I just havent had threesomes yet
There's only been four, and no sex now, dead bedroom, so I've written stories as much as I can remember, of what I did with each and how it went down. I do this to remember and as a titillation to masturbate. I haven't actually written anything I've done with my now wife of 32 years, because of the tough time we're having.
Never gave it a thought about keeping score . I do remember the ones that I cared about and the " special " ones .
I don’t keep a written list on my phone or anything. Mainly out of fear of my wife snooping through my phone one day and then questioning me on how many ppl I’ve slept with. Every now and then I’ll try and recall everyone from memory though.
My personal count is in the low single-digits. OTOH, a close friend of mine told me that, while he doesn't have an exact count, the number of women he's fucked exceeds 100 (and he just turned 64.) I thought his number was a substantial exaggeration, until I mentioned it to his wife and she confirmed that, yes, he'd probably had the many partners in his life. She also said something else to me that I've never gotten any elaboration on. She said, "Most men think that they're God's gift to women, but [HUSBAND] knows it for a fact!"
I can certainly understand that he found your slutty past to be very arousing. I'll bet he jerked off imagining you in those situations. The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret
I found her slutty past to be very arousing, and I'm not even married to her. She had some good stories.
I have a handful of disappointing stories Lack of chemistry or compatibility, my fault, her fault. And I have wonderful stories that make me miss those days but still cherish the moments I get in the present which are not frequent; lack of choice and my lack of instinct and catching A nice relationship would be nice but I have to look at things in full honesty