It's been my experience with women over the years that I've either gotten tight lipped ones about their sexual past that you couldn't get a past encounter with other men out of them with a pry bar, or just the opposite where they're stories almost become TMI and you cringe every time she opens her mouth and starts referring to a past encounter.
My wife was 28 when we met, she had a hell of a past She settled down somewhat mostly chasing women now We'll see when things open up again if the sex bomb come back
Mu bb girl sand I share everything and every detail. Love it. Honesty is so hot . I always hated the lies and bad acting. I use to purposely catch them up lol. So fake. I've asked stuff they prob confused my girl and I've def shared more than she prob wanted. Lmfao
Adding to what I said previously, my wife was a wild woman. She would tell me about some of the things she did in her twenties, we even re=did some of those things. Her past was an open book to me and my past was open as well.
My wife spent a few days this week in a reunion with "girls" from her college days. One actually married one of my wife's former lovers. They did a lot of reminiscing, and Lynn was reminded of some sexual episodes that she had forgotten to tell me. It made for an exciting evening of sex as she told me the details of those times with other guys.
My only concerns are criminal history, diseases, multiple baby daddies. Other than that I couldn’t care less about a woman’s past.
Knew before . At this point what difference does it make . ( stole that line from hillary clinton ! )
My wife had only been with one guy. He was basically a jerk from what I've been able to hear from her. I've posted specifics on other threads, but essentially he never took he out anywhere, just fucked her three times a week for 2-1/2 yrs then dumped her. We met shortly after that and have been together many years. Today I just found out how her de-virgin-erizing happened. Now at 25 she was still un-penetrated. But the guy who'd been flirting with her at work had another girlfriend. So one day she went to his apartment, said, "You've been wanting to fuck me, so here do it." Then just took off her clothes, got on his bed, and said, "Do it." She said it wasn't anything memorable as she remembers, he just opened her legs, got on her, put it in, moved some then came. She said she just got up, got dressed and left. Wow, if that's all there was to it, I can see how she said it wasn't memorable. Of course, after that, he started coming over to her house after work 3-4 nights a week and fucking her. So she got two and a half years worth of steady fucking (oral, anal) before we met. I'm going to ask further questions soon now that we've gotten that out of the way.
"...oral on her bro..." So how did that happen? Any other stories (and you seem to have several to chose from) you can share specifics on? Most of us are always willing to lend an ear.
We got married when she was 40 and I 33 y/o. She had married twice before and had had many affairs which means she had fucked enough to know how to proceed. I had had numerous partners too and had lived together with two different girl friends. At some point she cheated on me. Later we had a hiatus in our marriage for around 3 years. During that time, she fucked with at least a couple of folks. I found out that then she learned to enjoy anal sex.
We met when we were both 36 and twice divorced. She had been open about her sexual past before we married. 7 men (not including her ex's). She knows about my history. Some stories made her jealous, while other stories turned her on. Most of her stories turned me on......well except for the ex husbands. And we still have to interact with one of them.
I knew who took her virginity before we started dating. I also knew she was doing her boyfriend before we went out together...he was a friend of ours. She never held back that I'm aware of. She also told me how her former boyfriends cock differed from my own. Thankfully, she liked my size better (or so she always told me)!
My wife had only slept with 2 guys before her and I met. She still "sleeps" with the guy she lost her virginity to (they were high school sweethearts)... And her relationship with him has greatly enhansed our sex life.
Seems like more and more. in the last 3-4 years, and even among the ladies, the antiquated, 'polite' term, 'slept with' is being replaced with the more accurate term. Such as, 'let him fuck me', 'fucked him twice', 'we were friends and I fucked him once', 'I used to fuck a few guys' . If, in fact, it was a long-term thing, then 'slept with' is right. Otherwise, as is much more often the case, a short-term encounter needs the more descriptive term. Good to see the language catching up to the times.
Here's a clip of a comment from another thread of 'brides' or 'bridesmaids' with the pre-ceremony dressing photos, before and after the gown goes on. And my response. "....I always wonder at weddings how many guys had her holes in every which way before she found Mr. Right and adorned the white dress..." That's for the public of course. Many of them have a 'history'. For mine, Miss Prim-and-Proper, it was only one, but he did her completely and repeatedly for 2 years, in both lower areas.
I started asking my wife about her past a couple of years into our marriage. She claims she's been with about a dozen men, (I think it's at least a few more). She had a fairly interesting and exciting past. Most, I'm sure she wouldn't allow me to elaborate on. We began talking about her various encounters during sex. It was apparent that she was open to almost anything. It was an incredible turn on. This eventually led to some "hotwife" play.
