honestly.... does size matter???

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by User Name, Feb 23, 2005.

  1. User Name

    User Name Member

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    Ladies... I am now completely convinced that size DOES matter after watching "Mr. Bigg" and his victims intense, seismic reactions. These girls were in exctasy. Am I right, or am I right?
     
  2. lawngirl

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    size only matters to me in that it cannot be too big, because it's uncomfortable or painful.

    i find i can move around more if the guy isn't enormous, and that usually makes it better for both people.
     
  3. blckra1n

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    yeah.. it cant be too big
     
  4. Tony Montana

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    who's mr. bigg? tell me more ma nigga
     
  5. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    Sorry to say, but I'm just being honest. Size DOES matter, but a big issue is how you use it too. If you've got a big cock & you don't know how to use it, what's the point in having it???? LOL!
     
  6. Tony Montana

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    so what size do you like, nigga?
     
  7. SilverClover14

    SilverClover14 Senior Member

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    Size does matter to me- too big is more painful than anything. Anything over 7 or 8 inches is too big for me.
     
  8. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    Seven or eight inches is just fine. If it's bigger, it's a BONE-us!
     
  9. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    I hate big dicks. They're too scary, almost like it's alive!!

    I like the average ones. I have to be honest as well, if a guy had a REALLY small dick, I'd probably be a little turned off.
     
  10. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    but it is alive...

    i dunno if size matters, i think u'd have to have about 100 guys to be able to make statistics. personally i havent been with 100 guys, and ive had both good and bad experiences with different..uuh "sizes"..
    so yea, theres no rule.
    having said that, it is true that a really really small penis is kinda a turn off.
     
  11. dmgreen

    dmgreen ~Hugz 4 All~

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    I have been with guys of all sizes and I believe that no matter what size it is, as long as you know to work it then it's all good.
     
  12. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    well, I don't like the extreme ends (3" and 10"), but so long as you know what to do with it, it should be ok.

    Besides, us gals will notice a different girth before we notice a different length, in terms of sensation. Just because you may have a long cock, doesn't mean it's gonna make a gal happy... my last guy was about 7.5 and he kept hitting my cervix, which is quite painful for me. And he obviously didn't know how to use himself, since he didn't fucking stop when I told him to (there's a reason why he's an ex). Most women don't orgasm from penetration either, so I don't see why it's so important to guys, what size they are.
     
  13. kayy

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    Size... what about the girl's size? I mean, it's about matching up 2 persons... and some really tall guys have a small one and some short guys have a real big cock... So u never know... BUT: of course size matters! some like real hard friction, and other don't; some get hurt... Stop pretending size dosn't matter.... But if u r into oral sex, then ok, it's different... Be honest with yourself, what does really turn you on?
     
  14. the_dude

    the_dude Senior Member

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    i dont think i would get down with a shallow girl anyway, but im young so...
     
  15. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i agree with kayy. if it's too long for the womans' vaginal canal, it can pound on and bruise the cervical area, causing breakthrough bleeding and agonizing cramps and fear of permanent damage. (been there, if fucking SUCKS)

    if it's too thick, it hurts like hell trying to get it in, and when it's all said and done, you feel like you've given birth. too thick can be pretty much anything depending on the woman. different for a virgin than a woman who's given birth to 3 kids, even if she CAN clench.

    if it's both, that man had better be extremely careful in how he fucks his woman. and that means he can't let go and get crazy.

    but at the same time, i once dated a guy with a cock the size of one of my fingers. poor fucker.

    the length of a woman's canal will stretch to adjust to a longer man, but only so far. not all women are built the same. i dont' like longer, i like a little thicker, but to othick and it feels like labor.

    my ex was about 9", and sometimes he'd really hurt me, shoving it in too hard, but he wasn't quite thick enough for my preference. my husband isn't 9", but the head and upper portion are thicker than the base. it's an awesome sensation, and i don't have to worry about the bruising, the bleeding, or the awful cramps.
     
  16. KarmaComa

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    Size matters. Of course that doesn't mean that a woman won't have anything to do with you if its 'small'. It also depends on if you know what you are doing. No woman wants a man with a lil bitty penis, but we also don't want huge ones. My favourite was about 9 inches long and perhaps two/three inches wide, but I'm a fan of rough sex and I like for my cervix to be stimulated a bit. I've actually turned a man down because he was so little, but in my defense it was the size of a vienna sausage! I told him to go to bed.
     
  17. lynsey

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    nope unless it's abnormally small or abnormally large size doesn't matter.
     
  18. Binky

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    A lot of people say “size doesn’t matter, its how you use it that counts” and I use to use this rule myself until I realised, have you ever seen a “small” vibrator/dilldo?
    Lol but in saying that there is such ting as too big.
     
  19. bellystar

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    Size matters to me.
     
  20. sweetval

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    If he knows what he's doing with it. size does matter. I had sex with a guy that had 9 1/2" about 2" thick.

    He teased me for about 20 minutes with short strokes occasionally sliding in deep. When I was so hot I couldn't stand it any more he just opened me up and fucked me deep. I thought I had gone to heaven.

    If he had just started fucking me hard right from the start it wouldn't have been very much fun!
     

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