I'm wondering how people feel about this subject. Please check all that apply, and feel free to comment on what you chose and why?
i personally think that it is disgusting...im just not into the whole cherry pie thing as my husband calls it... when i am on it its blow job week for him
I wouldn't ever want to while on my period. I have sharp pains anyway, and with how much sex hurts for me the pain would be unbearable. Plus rather messy I would think.
i have strong cleanliness issues. i don't like feeling gross when i'm having sex, it's distracting. though a while back, when i was on the shot, i never quit bleeding, for 6 months, it was horrible. i was DESPERATE for some love, and dave was all for it, no problem at all. not that he would CHOOSE to do so otherwise, but seeing me crying totally broke his heart. i need sex like some people need zoloft. gotta get my dose or my whole world goes to shit.
generally not into it, i have done it though and it wasn't that bad...the bed looked like the Manson family had paid us a visit though. i wouldn't do anything oral during that time.
Depends how full-on it is. I'm a picky bastard (wish I wasn't but what can you do?) and really particular about hygiene. I can't go down on a girl unless she's just had a shower and am very reluctant to have sex while she's having a period. Maybe if the lights are off and I can have a shower straight after - it's like anal sex to me I guess. I'll do it - but only to keep her happy. Interestingly: women are more horny during their period and studies have shown that during this time they are more attracted to the 'russell crowe' type guys rather than the pretty boys.
i've never liked pretty boys. i've always been a studly man fan. though not necessarily of the very heavily muscled type. i find i'm most horny when i'm ovulating, and dave has great success getting laid when i'm pms-ing, emotional vulnerability and all that.
I want to have sex when I have my period, but then again I want to have sex all the time. I don't see a difference. It's not messy really at all. Also, sex is known to help cure cramps and in my experience it does. As for oral sex, no way.
quote: It's not messy really at all. It was when i did it! It was the last sex with my g/f in California the day I left, the mattress was covered in blood, I left it at the curbside and it was picked up to be used by someone else within an hour. There was blood all over.......was wearing a condom for once
I've never had a problem with it. I have a problem with oral sex during menstruation because well, I'm not a vampire. But 365 & 1/4 days a year if the mood is right and I want to make love to the one I love - I don't care one bit about aunt flow being around.
I get really bad pains in my lower back and upper thighs on the first day of my period and the pain is kinda paralyzing.. the only thing that seems to help is sex. It's kinda yucky because it's so messy, but then again.. having sex in shower is kinda fun.
I always had sex during my menstruation. It not only helped with any cramping but it was nice to be held that way then. I no longer menstruate so now it would obviously not be a problem but when I did it was never a problem for my partner either. Good lord it is only body fluids.
I dont think I would unless I was really comfortable with the guy I was with. I would feel gross and dirty anyways, cause thats the way I generally feel when im ragging.
I've done it before, and I'd do it again... I don't really see what the big deal is. If the girl is down for it, I don't have any problem with it. WHat am I going to be like "ew, blood!"? I don't really care. :H
quote: I prefer to wash away the clots before though. OK now its proven to be a gross thing, case closed
Not to sound like more of a hippie, but it's natural! A little blood would help your iron intake! Plus it has a very rich smell to it. Not fishy or gross, just sweet, light metallic and warmth.
It's funny how women are all turned on about vampires, but then when a little blood comes along... Seriously, I don't mind sex when my wife's having her period. In fact, I like to imagine I'm a notorious serial killer "Gordon Hactor", and my wife is my victim, a student nurse. I make her wear all white and we ...... Just kidding.