you're not gay, but your masturbation habbits are centered around cock

I'm unable to cum while masturbating anymore unless I have something inserted up my ass. The wife and I were stroking me on the living room couch the other day, it wasn't getting fully hard. She says "Hold on"...returns with a vibrating dildo and lube and begins fucking my ass as I stroked myself and when I said I was cumming she took my cock in her mouth to receive my load and shared it in a hot kiss with me.

 

I've noticed the same slow progression with me over the years. I used to cum very fast masturbating. Especially if I'm worked up from foreplay or porn. Now, I masturbate and my arms will literally give out before I can cum, 8 out of 10 times. So now, I always have my handy dandy vibrator and/or dildo ready and waiting. My favorite is my wand. There's just something I connect with in my body, and mind, that a great orgasm involves that amazing anal and prostate stimulation at the same time. Not that It's a bad thing lol. But I do miss a quick orgasm from a simple handjob. A hot kiss sharing a mouthful of cum, that's something I love also.

 

Does this occur from when you have noticed I guess kinks or fetishes? In regards to LowhHangers or BoyToy69? this is really kinda weird I guess for me. I can cum when I do non prostate stuff but i has always take forever for me at least. It is kinda awkward I guess because for me because over the years I guess I jus refused to try to experiment with stuff I guess. But I am know crossing that realm I purchased some toys, I can actually say I am at the least bicurious definately but probably Bisexual. I guess I was just very repressed for so long with understanding my sexuality is just kinda tough. I'm 40 so I'm not a kid but I just worry I missed out on so much. I'm single but at the moment am not looking at trying to get in a relationship. But trying to discover stuff, in a Covid environment is kinda difficult. I also don't really know he local LGBT community so I am just kinda very unaware of where to go to connect to people in the community to further my awakening if it where. Sorry if i'm rambling it's kinda difficult. And finding people that are into things potentially like I am is kinda hard to do?

 

Neither do I and I'm pretty sure many other men here are not active within that community either. My ventures into the bisexual world took place with other men married to women. Yes I had a few flings with openly gay men but quickly steered away from those because they became too attached. Married men became my choice to have oral sex with because there was no drama and we provided each other with what we were both looking for at the moment and went our separate ways. Repeat get togethers were common, but done so without the pressures of wanting a relationship...It was just sex!

 

I love porn and masturbate to it regularly since I have become older, and just about the only porn I don't like is lesbian because there is no dick to watch.

 

Kinks/fetishes? I don't think so for me. I just LOVE the feelings associated with anal play. So, when I start masturbating, I'm constantly wishing I was getting those also. And my body has a very strong connection with my mind, so even a small distraction of anal thoughts while jacking off, and I'm turning into an over-boiled noodle lol. Same with my injuries, I can be having great sex doggy style, if my shoulder or other parts start to give out it's all over due to the limp noodle syndrome. Mind over matter for me. I also don't know anything about the LGBT community. Being in a tiny town in the middle of BFE has never helped. My biggest help and bringing my mind at-ease has been this HF community. I had always thought I was one in a very rare group being Bi/Bi curious. It couldn't be further from the truth. Keep reading here and other places DK, you'll see we're all the same great people with different tastes. Some like mild, some like spicy. Follow your taste buds and you'll find your comfort place also.

 

Yes! Me too!! It’s not complete until there is something in me! I am getting where I have to have that item inserted to get over the edge. My orgasms used to feel like they were exclusively from the penis. Now I think they all really stem from the inside. As soon as something is inserted, I can feel my muscles contacting around the object, slowly building that orgasm. I thought it was just me. Good to hear others “need” that insertion too.

 

i've said I'm bicurious, not exactly bisexual, because I've never had any experience with other men. The only gay porn that gets me aroused involves anal sex (especially with cumshots or creampies) and 69ing. Because that's all I am interested in doing. Probably will never happen, given my real life situation, but I have masturbated to the fantasy of being fucked in the ass and filled with cum.

However, I do get enjoyment from sharing pictures of my ass and having guys tell me it turns them on.

 

I have been watching the porn on "Hot Guys Fuck". There are channels on most of the top porn sites.

It’s straight porn with young, hot, buff guys fucking sometimes hot women.

I find myself wanting to fuck some of the guys in the videos as opposed to fucking all the women. The thought of having my dick pound one of those tight male asses is over the top hot. And all of them had nice cocks to suck.

 

I tend to start with straight porn before moving into gay/bi/sissy. Women are very sexy, but I think it's more envy of their looks. I rarely stroke to or cum from straight porn anymore.

 

Straight porn has become too predictable. Suck. Fuck. Doggy style. Cum shot. And done. And most of the amateur porn follows that same template with the disadvantage of shitty camera work and even worse production values.

The boilerplate of straight porn has become yawn inducing.

Probably why I like gay porn these days. It’s something fresh to my eyes. But likely it will to become routine sex acts after several viewings.

 

I could stroke it forever, but when the anal/prostate stimulation starts, it like playing with dynamite.

 

I totally agree Typical porn is boring.Tube sites have made watching porn more interesting . You don't need the bullshit, just something hot. As an older man, Bi and Granny porn vids have peaked my curiosity lately

 

I totally get this - the best masturbation needs to include anal pleasure

 

and who are you the king of love..................!

 

Me too, I’d love to feel a cock slide in and out of my mouth and feel it stiffen up right before he unloads his warm cum in my mouth and down my throat

 

I’m with you, I’m older and bi and granny porn is what I watch and masturbate to

 

100% straight, never been with a man I never will, but there's nothing more erotic than seeing a cock ejaculate, love porn with men masturbating themselves especially if they are dressed in womens lingerie

 

it feels so good in my mouth

 

For me with Porn, There as to be a cock, the bigger, thicker the better.. one or two girls sucking it, giving a good hand-job but always ending in lots of thick, cum on her face, in her mouth or somewhere on her body..

Or...

A women sat on a man's lap facing forward with the bottom of her feet pushing down on his knees, slowly riding up and down on a big thick 9 inch cock..

While the guy, (I wish to god it was me), was knelt down licking the woman's wet pussy and sucking and licking her clit while pulling on the man's ball sack.. then eventually going down and sucking on the man's soaking wet sweaty juicy balls.. while still playing with her clit with his one hand and masturbating himself with the other... then slowly licking up the man's long shaft as he slowly draws his cock out before slowly sliding it back into her soaking wet pussy... with her juices flowing and when he shoots his load sucking up all his cum mixed in with hers off her pussy and sucking it up from his low hanging wet sweaty cum covered balls.. ending with him cleaning them both up sucking and licking up every last drop of cum..
it's the cock and the cum that I love.. that turns me on.. sorry, not the man.. but it's nice with a friend or someone you know be them gay or Bi..