I have had the doc finger it checking my prostate, I didn't mind but it didn't turn me on. Well, except for a cute intern and it obviously was not her first rodeo. I have never had a partner that would let me try it but would like to explore that.
My wife has a couple times during a BJ/Hand job/ assisted masturbation. I would like her to do it more often, but I get why she don't. The first time she did I just about fainted from such a strong orgasm. Indescribable turn on.
My wife use to finger fuck me and I did rhe same to her while 69'd. Use to get us cumming hard. Now, my FB fingers me while I suck him and I love it.
The nerves involving the vagina and anus are interwoven. So, many ladies, in my experience, once over the timid hesitation, enjoy it as part of foreplay or in addition to. That includes my wife. Many are afraid we're going to want to put MrHappy in there next. Once reassured that's not next, the tingly feelings can be enjoyed.
I have done this to her and she has me. She has rimmmed me also and i have her but not as much as she has me
Wife did it the first time to me when were showering together. She was soaping everything up and inserted her finger. I liked it because it did feel pleasurable and it was something I would have never expected from her, it turned me on that she was introducing something new. She has done it a couple of times but, not as much as I would like... I've use a finger and slender toys on her and she does enjoy it just a little at a time...
My wife has yet to explore further, she will play with the perinium area rubbing while she strokes my cock or during oral sex. I want to say, "just go for it" or "play with my ass already!" I would love for her to stick a finger in my ass and open up and allow me to play with hers too!
Love it... my gf puts a finger in while sucking me, and I put my finger in her while licking her... also doggie I put my finger in first before I fuck her in the ass (hard!) She absolutely love it, and I like her finger in me too... (new for me)
Just watch the fingernails! Even cheap-as-dirt 'food-service' gloves (500 for $10 on ebay) slip on quick and when lubed up, work well and protect.
No, I wouldn't "bounce" you, but I would probably yell at you! But all of that is moot as you know the rules and you follow them. Never would come to that.
For me there was nothing better than getting a blowjob and be gently fingered at the same time. I could not be still I was so turned on.