Barefooter Dating Protocol

We read them. I don't want to date anyone who is too normal or "down to earth" what ever that means.

That makes sense. I saw a photo online this woman people would say is below average but with like the nicest feet I ever saw.

 

It was 10 years ago but I 'dated' one who looked alot like this. We were friends, at that time I was real into the gym, not all meat head but I had enough athletic look to date younger women.

So her husband she married at 20 yo decided it would be a smart Idea to steal money from work to smoke crack and get caught and flee the state. We were friends she is stuck with apartment no rent money, he is gone so I said come stay with me save up.

This is the barefooter dating protocol thread so I should mention some of our friendship started with commenting on her being barefoot all the time and getting it.

She told me from the start "your as old as my mother don't get used to this" but she had some addiction issues herself back in the day of pain pill mills and never saved up to move out and get the nice apartment the dog and the things she wanted. Like a year.

I really dont get the pain pill addiction thing, I am alcoholic never thought much of that oxy / roxy codone. Itchy and a lame buzz. I like vodka too much when I am not sober and on the wagon.

I am a good dude I can't post pictures of an old friend without permission but she looked so much like this one.

Just skip to the end of the story, she hid it well but one day passed out on that crap wile food was cooking on the stove and I walked into my place its full of smoke and I cant wake her up. Tramatic, now I got this anxiety it can happen again, afraid to leave her in my place alone.

So keep the story short some arguing about the pills you have to go and last I know she was still doing well. It was my fault enabling providing free place to stay. When she had to pay rent buy her own food didnt have money for excessive drug use.

I don't know I loved having her here but at the same time she meant dont get used to this your too much older. So at the same time my abilty to date other women went on hold cause I could not bring anyone else home. I started to resent that.

So now fast foward to2021 and back to Barefooter Dating Protocol.

I got my anxieties about being perceived as "too much into feet" on a dating profile

Got to get over it, few year back go close with a neighbor this time older then me it started the same way she always outside barefoot that attracted me over, she was another one with some issues but I just flat out said it I like your feet, then foot rubs then I am sleeping over head to toe on her uncomfortable couch having her sexy feet like a pillow all night. Falls behind on rent goes to live with family 100 miles away.

Barefooter Dating Protocol, I don't know, I only know offline real world and never getting in any trouble telling any woman I like feet cause they are fun.

You started this thread 3 weeks ago I still have not joined a dating site.

I already stated above my dislike of dating sites. I guess I will try.

 

I would really like to date someone i can be comfortable with being myself but I think the odds stacked against me are huge. I fear I'm going to walk alone for the rest of my days.

 

If being yourself means going barefoot everywhere just drop it.

I don't need the extra baggage of finding someone who is cool with me never wearing shoes anyplace. I am not narrowing my choices to that.

Ok we are going out, Ill put my damn shoes on. Could buy some of those minimalist sneakers, never tried them probably doesn't feel like wearing wood blocks like most shoes do and they are made to look like any other cool pair of sneakers.

 

Try some Xeros barefoot sandals. The Genesis model is only 3mm thick sole. Not as good as barefoot of course, but not bad.
I wear them when the ground is too hot or when going into a store and don't feel like dealing with possible hassles.

I have gone out three times with a gal I met online recently. One barefoot hike (me), rest of the time I wore the sandals.
I haven't seen her feet yet, lol. Working on that, although she may have already friend-zoned me, which is fine.
I could use a new friend or two, some have moved away recently.

 

I take it the xero's are comfortable to you? I seen alot of hate on them in the comments on social media. I bought earth runner, and the strap that goes between the big toe and second toe, it was very uncomfortable. I wore them for weeks, soaked them, whatever I could to loosen that strap up and finally I just through them away. Waste of 90$

 

I have the Genesis and Jessie models and like both a lot.
The Jessie is actually a women's sandal but the largest size fits me.
Both are around $40-$45. I find both very comfortable.
Only issue with the Genesis is the sole is so thin, sometimes the front edge flips under and drags for second.
The Jessie sole is much thicker.

 

Bumping this up to see if anybody has additional thoughts on dating profiles?

I have recently created a couple online profiles and in both I mention I go barefoot 24/7.

 

Guess I will contribute to making this post come back to life.
What I wonder is how people find a girl that is foot fetish friendly, or has one herself, or just into the barefooting world. It is so taboo its annoying. People see eating ass as acceptable, but feet are gross? What doesn't help is all the creepers on girls social media posts leaving their stupid comments. I have had so many relationships end, when everything is going well, and then I kiss her soles or whatever and she just ends it right there. Its frustrating. I always keep it private, and this is the first time ive ever talked to anyone about it, but noone really knows who I am on here. But yea, things are all fine and dandy until feet come into play. It sucks.

 

She just ended it just like that right then and there? A click of the fingers? Did She she give you a change to explain? There are a whole lot more worse things than that as well all know what from we see in the media these days Compared to many things it's so safe and innocent. Unfortunately the individuals with no self control with their foot fetishism are the people who make the news, that puts the rest of us in a bad light If that's such a problem with you kissing her feet then there's a good change she's not worth it. Why in the heck do most women get their feet all dolled up and they freak out when we pay attention to them, I'll never understand that one to this very day.

As a foot fetishist it is indeed frustrating. Yes, it does become a problem in dating. I often kept it private myself, but it's a part of you and a very big part for that matter. When my wife and I were dating I had to tell her about it, unsure about it at first, she did come around with accepting it knowing I'm a person with good moral character.

 

My profile mentions I like to go barefoot and specifically hiking. I took out mention of shopping barefoot, thought that might be a bit too much info at that stage of meeting someone.

It would be nice to meet a gal who likes to barefoot, but minimally she'd need to be accepting of it. If she has nice feet and liks them being attended to, that would be great but it's not a deal breaker for me.

 

Yea that one blows my mind too. Get them all dolled up and cute looking, but flip your script when you get comments about them. Doesn't even make sense. They don't cut it cold turkey right there. But I can see their body language while doing it, and they just let it go. Its a next morning text kind of thing where they end it.

 

I just like chicks who go barefoot. It isn't a fetish.

 

Chicks who go barefoot are off the charts hot.

 

I met a woman who loathes her feet,won't even touch her own feet. No clue how hideous her hooves are. Never took her socks off. Never touched her. I'm ok with that no touch part!

Woman has issues. We don't invite her up much.

 

I like when the person that you are dating goes barefoot everywhere too

 

My first girlfriend spoiled me. She was barefoot all the time just like me. In the ensuing years I never again dated a true barefooter.

My late wife was completely supportive of my barefoot lifestyle, and on rare occasions went barefoot with me. I think it may have been my “barefoot” personality that she found “cute” or amusing. But she was always proud to walk with me in stores. Her wearing shoes. Me barefoot.