maybe I just need advice

I'm glad this post came up.
Latley, I've been confused..
In a way I'd like to come out, as bi-but I'm not sure if I am, and if it was a phase, and I came out, and decided I wasn't..god, it would be a mess.
I'm confused.
I am attracted to girls, yes, but not in the way I am to guys.
With guys, I feel like I could have a relationship, and with girls I'd just want to have a good time, nothing relationship. So, I don't know if that's solid enough to claim that I am bi..

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I felt like that for a while but now I know I'm definitely full fledged bi... who knows, maybe that'll change. If I were you I wouldn't come out as anything at all. Come out as a lover of beautiful people You can't go wrong that way.

 

a lot of gurls and women are a attacted to gurls but live straight life styles i've been with gurls who yes were attacted to gurls but in the long run wanted to just fool around with a gurl and which is fine but both sides have to know that its just fooling around so if all you wanna do is fool around then just be a lover of beautiful people

 

Just say you're bi, it'll get you laid more if nothing else. If it comes to it, you can carry on being thought of as bi, and just not bother with girls. Plus blokes (albeit the wrong sort of blokes) like it.

 

SelfControl- I really hope you're not serious.

SurfhipE- I wouldn't bother with a title or label just yet. Don't feel like you need to have one. You're still learning who and what you are. To take a label when you're still not sure might have an effect on your choices and decisions in the future. Not saying you're like this, but there are some people who do take on different personality traits or make choices they normally wouldn't just to fit in with the stereotype of their label. Be yourself and do what you feel is right for you. The answers will surface in time.

But if you were to be labelled anything, I'd say bi-curious at most. I'm still a firm believer that having a little fun does not define your sexuality. I know not everyone agrees, but it's my personal take on sexuality.