Over 65 , married , and like masturbating & nudity when I am alone

It is except she doesn't know what goes on between and I. Nor does his wife

 

No judgment here on your bi relationship, I'm sure you're handling it the best way you see fit. My gf and I are Sexually active, she knows about my bi bottom desires(and has learned to peg me very well) but said whenever I meet up with a guy not to tell her because she would get jealous. So she's happy not to know. You're not seeing your bi fwb to cheat, just taking care of a need. I can't be with other women because of the different emotional attachment that occurs than when with a guy, a woman would affect my relationship, a man is more Recreational

 

While following this dialog I see it paralleling the sex life between my spouse and I except I have relationships with other women, not men, now. My spouse is asexual due to medical issues. She still desires the cuddling, touching, and caressing which I give but when it comes to the actual deed it's a no. It hurts her physically and is something I cannot do to her. I have to take care of me mentally when it comes to fulfilling my desires. When I have that need to release well up inside my head, the big one, I have to take care of it. The physical part satisfies the mental part. I meet other women and have a purely sexual relationship with them. Emotional attachments are checked at the door of our meeting place. I make it understood that we are there for sex and sex only. My spouse knows I have the physical connection with other women but would rather it be kept to myself. Along with that I masturbate privately but enjoy nudity in her presence which she doesn't mind.

 

Awesome, sounds like a Great arrangement. She sounds very very cool

 

We’re 60.....haven’t had sex in 5 years. NONE! She has no interest....she’d rather start a fight. Wat used to be a fantastic sex life is dead, and my masturbation frequency has really fallen off...like 3-5 times a month.
I do love when she leaves town for a couple of days. As soon as she’s out the door I’m nude. Skinny dipping, sunbathing, walking around the house day and night. Never close the
Blinds or drapes. Love being naked except around my wife.

 

Yeah, I enjoy Nudity and Masturbation alot myself. So liberating when the clothes come off

 

I am so sorry, but you are not alone, my guys around us have the same problem including myself. So the only way is to help ourselves. I masturbate while she is sleeping next to me. It takes time but I do. I have a lot of sex fantasies, so I wank off next to her without waking her up.

 

Everybody has different ideas about this situation. some women understand their husband's sex situation and let them have sex with other women and some others can not get the real point. If you lost your sex desire what would you let her have sex with the others?

 

Yes I would

 

Hey at least you fuck occasionally, hell i do not even get that from my wife lol

 

Well while fingering her, does she get nice and wet and creamy at least ?

 

Damn gotta agree with you ,

 

My my, there seems to be such a common thread among married men over 50.....beware the menopause.....beware.............

 

My wife is 57. She is officially “post menopausal” (they have to go a full year without their period for it to be official). During the couple of years while she was going through it, her libido was hit and miss. But now our sex life is like it was when we met back in the mid 80’s. She still gets extremely wet during foreplay. If it’s a “quickie” we’ll need to use some lube. I have no complaints with my situation. Hopefully it stays that way for the next 35 years!

 

Yes, I agree, but on depend with your partner.

 

I hope too, when I and my wife were at your age we had a great sex life, but now at lover 70 both of us reduce our lust, particularly my wife.

 

Yes I would......and knowing she’s getting it from someone else would probably rekindle my sex drive.

 

"Hypothetical" en inglés, amigo. Un saludo!

 

Igual, amigo! Disfruto de las oportunidades de practicar mi español. Casi siempre la gente me entretiene y nos da gusto. Puedo comunicar pero mejorar siempre es una meta mía. Me gusta ver viajeros españoles en Youtube también.
Que Dios lo bendiga!

 

I love Spanish but I don't know it. I wish I knew Spanish to know what do you say!