do you think you could have, or have you experienced, sex that was emotional, loving, AND kinky? or do you think those three don't go together? this idea came to my head in another thread... http://hipforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=1003930&postcount=5
Not into kinky sex but I see no reason why they wouldn't go hand in hand if it's with someone you're deeply attached to and the feelings are mutual.
Yes, I think all three can go together. Hell, I think all three SHOULD go together - emotional and loving lead to trust, which makes any kinky much better - you can trust your partner to not go way past your boundaries, trust them not to go crazy on you and leave you tied up or whatever the case may be.
We're both very emotional, maybe too emotional...and both more in love than I thought was possible, and both kinda nympho's always daring each other to do some new exciting thing, like doing it in my car in the police station parking lot... I dared her, she said yes, I parked, she started to undress, and I folded, which was typical. she usually outdared me......... we settled for the next lot over, looking at the station.......and were there three hours. We did it one sunny afternoon as I drove at 20 miles an hour down quiet country roads, and got some shocked looks, esp. from a graveltruck driver. He did a major doubletake. Then there was the time I ate a mandarin orange in likely the most satisfying way possible......best orange I ever savoured. Or the time we walked to the front doors of our apartment building late one night, holding hands, in the buff. Kinky, in love, emotional. I highly recommend the combo, works for me anyway.
I totally agree with Blackguard. I'm in the same type of relationship, crazy about eachother, both a little nutty. We're always having really intense kinky and emotional sex. It's so hot, I don't know if it could get any better. And I've been with him almost three years and it hasn't calmed down yet!
yes, they totally go together. i think what a lot of people consider kinky is stuff that requires trust. and if you can trust them, you can be free to fully experience a loving act without worry of being hurt. i haven't cried in years, kinda have a problem with displays of emotion. but dave is a pro at getting me to open up.
For sure these three do go together with my present girlfriend! Actually we are in love, so first two + very free about sex = all 3! And this is a very nice combination indeed
maybe all three dont exist together EVERY time, but my bf and i always have the loving/emotional components because we care about each other a lot, and most of the time, its also kinky because whats more fun than hot sex? i suppose it depends a lot on who you're having sex with
edit-I mean all three don't have to go together obviously but wanting to have kinky sex mean I have the ultimate trust with somone so the other two would have to be in existence.
