Has a Partner ever Asked You about Your Masturbation Habits?

Decades ago on a summer morning, the woman next door asked me if I wanted to go to the lake with her. On the way there she told me that her BF was out of town for the weekend. We ended up at an isolated beach on the lake, where she fucked me soundly. We got back, had dinner, and spent the whole night in her bed, never sleeping. During a rest between lovemakings, out of the blue, she asked simply, “Do you masturbate?” I said, “Yes,” and did not elaborate. That was the end of that discussion, and we went back to to lovemaking. Our affair lasted all of just two days. Ever since then, whenever I recollect that moment of admitting I was a wanker, it excites me. I even use it sometimes as a masturbation fantasy.

Have you had an experience where a sex partner has asked about your masturbating? How did you react? How do you feel about it now?

 

I had girlfriends who asked. I told them I did. some wanted to watch so they did. Others thought having a girl and regular sex would prevent it. My wife and I were going together she asked me how often. Never if I did, just how often. I told her sometimes once a day sometimes more. She still asks how many times I do it, and we're married 25 years. I still give the same answer.

 

I had a female friend that watched me once. She didn't say anything, didn't ask to see anything in particular. When I finished she just carried on. I was confused and asked her about it and she played it like she watched because I wanted her to. Multiple times I tried to phonesex, cybersex on cam etc. She showed no interest. Fast forward 20 years now she plays it off like she just loves watching. I can't figure her out. I think the truth is she was indulging my kinks.

 

My wife sometimes asks me if I do not have sex what do I do? I know what she means, she means do I masturbate? I answer whatever you do I do too.

 

My first wife of 25 years thought it was disgusting but my present wife of 7 years thinks it's erotic and loves to watch. Most times it leads her to finger my ass to help things along and other times it leads her to suck me off.

 

The wife when in the mood likes to feel me getting it off under the sheets, the she gets off herself, with luck we then have sex.

 

My bf has asked before, I told him that we girls do it a lot more than he’d think. ;-)

 

safe sex you can enjoy, some women even masturbate with it and they love the feeling.

 

I like to play with it sometimes, especially when I’m on my cycle and my vulva is too tender and sore to play with.

 

Do you get to orgasm?

 

...yes *blushes*

 

I personally have never seen masturbation (male or female) to be anything but natural, pleasurable, and satisfying for the soul.

 

Of course.
My wife and I discussed each others habits several times.

 

Feels good, YES

 

Oh... so good.

 

Yes, wife knows mine ~

 

Quite a few have asked and all have wanted to watch. Even better if they start to finger as they watch me