I ain't ready. I don't want to be nice about it either. I want a man and not a woman that changes herself into a man. I don't want to be evil but that's just the way I feel. People trip me out saying that they don't understand why people can't accept them for who they are. They know what the person is that they are dating and they choose what they wanted so why is it so hard to understand that I want to choose what I want. There is a difference between a man and a woman and frankly, I like that difference. I don't want a plastic strap-on thingy because to me it wouldn't be the same. Why is it that people get to change themselves and make decisions but I can't make choices? The wonderful things about a man are his essence and sexual energy (You can't duplicate it, you just can't.) I would feel cheated if you told me you were once a chick. Why don't you date chicks that were once guys or tell people what you were/are before you get serious with them? I just want to know if I'm alone on this and does anyone understand what I'm saying?
totally makes sense. what's kinda funny is that today i was thinking to myself "i feel like a bisexual man in a woman's body." i really love men, so i see no point in changing, but frankly i feel absolutely betrayed and confused by my physiology. it's like i was a boy all my life and woke up one day with tits and a pussy. hey, it's pretty damned alright, playing with them and shit, but the equipment just doesn't feel like it fits, if you know what i mean.
haha KC, come on now, you seem to be all woman! i know what you mean in a way though, sometimes I don't really feel like a man or a woman, gender neutral. So much of gender is socialized behavior. i had a friend who accidently had sex with a man who changed to a woman, he wasn't too happy about that
yeah, that's just kinda rude. there's plenty of people out there that would love that. honesty is crucial.
Yeah, not only that but it's mean to trick a person like that. The guy/girl gets mad because people don't accept them yet they don't want girl/guy people. Wh not let the person you are with know say that they can say ok or no thanks?
I'm bisexual, only with all my original parts. I always reveal the fact of my sexuality to the man/woman I date before even going on the first date. I just feel it is only right to be honest from the start about my sexuality. As far as transgendered sex change people, I agree that they should be honest from the start.
_______________ I was watching one of those talk shows and I heard the girl talk about how her strap on was suppose to satisfy her girlfriend and how she was the same or better than a man.