Dating a 19 year old when 44

As our get together is getting closer we have spent another evening talking, a mixture of general chat and flirty/sexy stuff. I am 99% sure when we meet we will kiss and I actually feel much more OK about this now.

 

You will do fine,dont worry she is 19..... The love is what matters!!

Just go slow and let her take her time and things will be beautiful

 

Keep us updated. X

 

I can assure you I will! x

 

I hope you have a wonderful time. X

 

Yes me also!!

 

I dated a girl 16 yrs younger than me she was 18. We were together for a yr

 

What was this like from your perspective?

 

To be honest her hard body was delicious, but the immature drama was a horror. Her mother was 14 when she gave birth to her. So there was that too.

 

Celine Dion was happy

 

This is something I am worried about, the many weeks we have been talking at work have given me no indication of this but it is still a worry at the back of my mind.

 

K has had to call off this evening due to a family emergency but she has assured me we can meet tomorrow "definitely"

 

What a coincidence. I was 44 working on a roof in the PGA National golf course in Florida when a young beauty of 19 ( whose job was driving a cart with drinks around the course)indicated she would like to see more of me. We spent a very nice weekend at my place--nice conversation--nice intimacy--all and all, a very memorable weekend . We never saw each other again--no harm, no foul--just a nice memory for me and hopefully for her. Do what feels right, short of harm.

 

You have way too many worries packed in there, seriously stop caring about maybes, psychodrama is only a problem if you're enough of a sucker to get drawn into it.

Enjoy what happens when and where you can, spending energy wishing and fearing what might be just distracts from this.

 

She has been blocked, her immaturity was all to clear.

 

Oh, dear. You are in turmoil.

 

I don't feel in turmoil at all

 

She did mention when I commented about getting a hotel room so we could have a proper night out drinking (there has never been any mention of us having sex ever) that I can afford it now I am earning much more driving trucks. But why the sudden cancelling of a date we have both been looking forward to?

 

Your right no dad...

 

I was with a 19y/o years ago and I realized that young are overrated! BTW I was 39