Anal, what's it like?

Just a quick comment: I'm a member of a bisexual discussion message board. Its NOT a section devoted to bisexuality, but a board ABOUT bisexuality. And 90% of the people there are only into oral sex.

 

I'm the same way. Some days it's like my ass is talking to me. Just the other day I said to my wife during breakfast "Babe, my ass needs a real good fucking today". She smiles and says, "You're such a slut".

 

Has anyone found an anal dildo or vibrator that simulates the feel of a cock going in and out?
I've seen some pulsating dildo ads that expand and contract? Anybody tried those and /or done the real deal with a cock to compare?

I fingered myself in HS, & used a wooden plunger with saran wrap & Vaseline. It felt good a few different times, until I slipped & nearly impaled myself! I stopped after that, was too scared.
I've tried a couple different prostrate massagers that are all too flexible (which rotate away from the prostrate) and not long enough, as can't bend enough with a belly to keep deep enough.
Only thing I have is a slender vibrator that has a small, soft curved, rounded "point" at 90 degrees. that is long enough for me to stroke in and out a bit & tickle the p-spot. But it, too, tries to rotate away from the prostrate, has an oddball battery.
I "know" nothing will match the real thing. Not looking for real anal, mainly interested in being a top. But I would like indulge my verse curiosity at home, by myself.
Just looking for the best approximation in a toy Thanks!

 

Of you have someone you hook up with and you are exploring versatile why not have someone do you so you can relax and feel the real thing, or at least try it

 

See myself as a top, which I haven't done yet. This is more of a fantasy, once or twice curious if ever.
Prefer to try solo alternates, see how I like the feeling of being full or not. Baby steps!

 

Thanks,
I've read not all gay guys do anal. Or they only practice it in a committed relationship.
Some bottom, some top, some say they are versatile.

I'm not bi bit I want to experiment and experience Bi or gay sex.

If you suck cock more power to you. I would like to try.

I've seen photos of some nice Cocks. I'm not so much attracted to the guys but the Cocks look tasty. I'm all for oral sex too.

I eat pussy, love sucking Boobs and I've rimmed a female.

Give me a nice smooth cock and hopefully I will do oral with a bi guy. Unless he identifies as straight but let's me suck his cock. Like I think I'm straight, maybe kinky or curious but some say straight guys do actually perform oral on other guys but say it's not gay.

I think same sex sex is a gay act or at least a Bi act if you are infact doing both sexes.

Trying Bi or trying a Gay sexual act might be a once off. I don't think I would identify as either gay or Bi if I try sex with a male.

It's not something I need to share or promote. I'm married but aside from that I've never felt I need to promote my sexuality.

By that I mean define or identity as "X".
By default I'm straight. I don't push it or ask for straight pride day, it's just life. People are more accepting of homosexuality so I don't see why anyone needs to promote it as such.


My own interests have me wanting to explore other options just for the experience.

 

Having bottomed a few times but not many I have been surprised at the enjoyment of it. Having achieved a prostate orgasm while a guy was inside of me was very intense and unlike anything I had experiences until then. All of that not to mention the intimacy of it. I haven’t experienced it yet from the top end of things, but there’s still time.

 

I've played with guys since 30 (I'm about to turn 60), and for the first 21 years it was only oral. But when I finally fell in lust with this twink's ass 9 years ago, and rimmed and fucked him--the best sexual experience of my life up until then--I have been crazy about anal with guys. I tell you, the feeling I felt when my cock entered that first guy's ass, and was finally deep inside him, deep inside another man, I felt something that is totally indescribable. It wasn't so much about the physical feeling of my cock inside his very well used ass, but it was about a deep gay connection with him, and a deep connection between my conscious self and what turned out to be quite a gay, repressed unconscious self. Over the last 9 years all my topping activities have only brought that gay part of me more and more to the surface, and I have steadily loved and accepted it more and more.

Over these 30 years I have also fucked my own ass with many dildos and vibrators, always pretending it was another guy fucking me. But in real life I haven't yet met a guy who I wanted to bottom for. I feel that it's a very special virginity of mine that I want to give to a special man. While we were together, my now ex-girlfriend also pegged me many times, fucking my ass with a strap-on. To tell you the truth, the only real thing I got out of it was giving her the pleasure of feeling that kind of dominance, which she really loved, and which therefore made me happy. But for myself I was only thinking throughout how I wished it was a real man fucking me. But boy did I ever love fucking her ass, especially because she was not on the pill so vaginal sex was always with a condom, but I fucked her asshole bareback and came inside of her, which I loved so much. She also tremendously loved anal, having many orgasms while I fucked her ass. But she was a very orgasmic woman anyway.

I definitely want to bottom for a guy, and hopefully soon. My gay side is stronger than ever, and in fact I'm only interested in men now, and for the first time have even started falling in love with a male platonic friend a couple of months ago. So when I meet a man that I will fall for like this who falls for me too, I will be so happy for us to fuck each other's asses. I want true intimacy with another man, giving and receiving, making love with each other. And especially taking the opportunity to breed each other, sharing our seed with each other, our very essence merging with each other's bodies, becoming one. I don't have children, so I believe that my seed has always been meant for men, perhaps one single, special man. Giving my ass to a another man is giving myself to him, and vice versa.

I know, this goes way beyond the physical fucking that a lot of gay and bi guys are about. But that's just me. I am so ready to be fully homosexual. Does that make sense?

 

For starters, I do use an enema before anything.

The thing I like about anal is, the feeling of a cock sliding in and out. It feels amazing, and my prostate swells as I get it. The constant rubbing on my prostate, combined with the friction, makes me cum. Not like a porno cum, for me it happens with no penile stimulation at all. My guy is well endowed, and good at control, so by the time he cums in me, I've already had at least 2 orgasms.

Of course, this depends on the guy fucking me. Some just know how to do it right!

 

As long as everyone is getting what they want.
Funny he doesn't touch you cock. Maybe that's too gay, but getting a load off in a guy is ok.
Nothing wrong with that, I want a guy to fuck me but not worried so much about fucking him but mutual oral would be nice.

 

It is so kind of you too allow him to be himself and to respect his boundaries. It shows what a loving person you are, and I admire that. And certainly those hands free internal orgasms sound awesome. I've given myself quite a number of hands-free prostate orgasms with my dildos, but I'm sure it's nothing like the real thing, and I can't wait. You guys and your descriptions of it makes me salivate. But I'm definitely a person that needs my man to be very affectionate and feeling true desire for me. From a couple of experiences at the beginning of this year with mostly straight guys, it doesn't work for me.

 

Anal sex for me is like sex with the wife, it just naturally goes together. It certainly helps having a regular buddy who knows how to penetrate you and how fast or hard he can go. And how often we do it, for my buddy and I we share anal at least twice a week and sometimes more. Do I enjoy having his cock in me, absolutely, does he come in me all the time, mostly as sometimes he straddles my chest and jacks off on my my face. The look on his face as he pumps my ass is awesome and makes me super hard seeing him getting off.

 

I have been a total bottom most of my adult life, have I taken loads of sperm in my ass all the time. Do I enjoy being the becky of the party absolutely. I dont know why I am the way I am but having a cock thrust into me seems natural to me. Felling his cock unload in me is heart stopping and intense, his gigantic pulsating cock throbbing as he unloads turns me on like no other.