In your first same sex experience did you kiss on lips or just sex?

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  1. Bob Danger Roberts

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    I've fooled around with a total of three guys.

    The first was just kissing and feeling each other up in a fairly public place. It would have gone further, but I didn't like him calling me Baby.

    The second one I definitely kissed and got a couple of blowjobs from. I tried sucking his dick, but he was more interested in blowing me.

    The third was an older guy I followed home from a bar. Kissing and groping and cock sucking. When he lubed my ass, I thought I was ready. I was not. It HURT when he tried to enter. He was willing to be more gentle, but the spell was broken.

    There haven't been many, but I've kissed them all.
     
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  2. thepapasmurph

    thepapasmurph Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    As a fellow man who enjoys kissing men - I applaud you... but I gotta ask a terribly personal question regarding the 3rd guy - were you prepared ahead of time for Anal Sex? If you've never been penetrated, it takes some preparation, some play down there, and then maybe, maybe you can relax enough to receive him. maybe you know already - that it's just not your thing - but you were willing at the time, or before you knew how painful it can be - I'm just curious about this, because I've had quite a journey from not wanting it, a little apprehensive - to finally now - loving it.
     
  3. Bob Danger Roberts

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    There were two issues. He assumed that I was much more experienced than I was and therefore went much faster than he would have otherwise with basically a virgin. And I think more importantly, he was not REALLY my type. He was just the low hanging fruit .... So to speak. Since he was more convenient than sexy, once the spell was broken, I wasn't that interested in backing off and trying again.

    As for whether or not it's my thing, it's hard to say. I got a really slow start with guys partly due to a really conservative upbringing, but also because in my opinion, there are a lot more hot women out there.

    Somehow I managed to live in a gay neighborhood in San Diego briefly without getting laid, though my housemates did offer. They were NOT my type.

    Before we started dating, my wife let me know that she didn't share, so cock has been completely off the menu for 17 years now. I have longings, but no regrets.

    Oddly, it is the first guy, the one that was just kissing and groping, that I think of more than the others. He was a pudgy nerdy, English major type. This is not a popular type in gay porn, but I'd wear that tape out if I found it.
     
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  4. JmSwt

    JmSwt I love my penis!

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    My first experience was just after I tried coming out and we decided that we were interested in each other. We tried kissing and enjoyed it. The kissing continued and we made out and things went farther as we continued our kissing. I love kissing so not being able to kiss is a dealbreaker for me…
     
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  5. Bjgirl

    Bjgirl I’m just having fun!

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    I’ve made out with a few girls before.
     
  6. jimandjan

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    Nothing wrong with that. Enjoy the best of both worlds.
     
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  7. LowHangers

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    For twenty plus years or so my experiences with other men was pretty much just mutual oral sex as we were both just wanting to suck and be sucked so kissing each other never took place. It wasn't until I discovered the pleasure of receiving anal sex that I considered kissing him. While riding his cock in my ass I do enjoy kissing him passionately as I'm working his hardness over my prostate and when I feel him starting to cum in my ass, I really enjoy a serious lip locking moment until I feel him going soft inside my ass.
     
  8. Jochamoe

    Jochamoe If I'm here, I'm horny and stroking. Love chatting

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    I liked playing and want to do it again, with a cock and have sex but not be romantic, just sex. Kissing, hugging, holding, are all personal and romantic; this is what I want with women. With men it's all about his and my cocks
     
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  9. Longzi

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    I was at a club many years ago and I went to the bar to grab some drinks and there was two very attractive women making out.
    I must of looked a little too long and one of them asked me what I was doing, I said just watching please don’t mind me. The other woman then said yeah it’s our first time, then they went back at it.
    Women kissing each other is a beautiful thing.
     
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  10. Curiousguy96

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    God this was an old one. Still the same for me. Don't like the idea of kissing a guy. I have however done much more than just a bj now with a different guy :p
     
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  11. pharmer420

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    My intrest lays from the waist down.
     
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  12. jimandjan

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    Hope we don't lose you to the other team, still watching tread 2 cocks at once, waiting to see if it comes true. You might like women too much. My wife claimed the other women in her life make sure they got her off, and I'm sure she did the same for them. But she still wanted cock.
     
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  13. Bjgirl

    Bjgirl I’m just having fun!

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    No matter how much fun I have with my girlfriends I will always be a cock lover!:kissingheart:
     
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  14. GregS

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    I've been bisexual for over 15 years an have never kissed a guy. Sucked a lot of cock and always let the guy cum in my mouth and been fucked with lots of cum in my ass, but kissing a guy, never. I reserve all kisses for my wife. Wife is for love, guys are for sex.
     
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  15. Friendly old man

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    For me kissing is way more intimate than sex. Kissing is for my love, not for the men I have sex with.
     
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  16. JmSwt

    JmSwt I love my penis!

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    I feel this way about two men kissing, absolutely beautiful and such a turn on!
     
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  17. JmSwt

    JmSwt I love my penis!

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    I’m a kisser so we kissed and made out!
     
  18. vbiboy

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    Just sex, but great.
     
  19. KDaddy23

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    I'd say it was definitely just sex for my first time; I think I was 11 the first time me and a boy kissed each other and then it was more like a quick peck on the lips before we got to the business of sucking each other off. I can count on one hand the number of guys I've kissed and that includes the gay boyfriend I had and even the two of us didn't do a lot of kissing.
     
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  20. Piobaire

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    Just sex; jacking off with my boarding-school roommate.
     
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