I should have said this more clearly. Our first 15 years were great. The last 4 I've been dead. Started with a couple injuries and subsequent surgeries which forced me to sleep in another bedroom. I liked sleeping alone and haven't been back.
My wife and I have been together 32 years we’ve always had a decent sex life not at it like bunnies but we do/did have sex. All the time we’ve been together it’s 99% of the time been initiated by me and he dressing up etc has been me asking also. Think only few times she’s initiated it has been at Christmas parties when she’s had a few drinks, making a point of showing me her underwear whilst getting dressed and reading me all night
My wife & I had always had a good sex life, married 30 years, now it is getting better, never thought it would, She is talking about getting a fuck buddy & letting me watch, then clean him & her up after. I am hoping since I have started enjoying sucking cock, she does not know, lol. also has talked about watching a man suck me, & getting a strap om to peg me. getting exciting.
Married now 46 years. We had a great time sexually in our beginning years of marriage. Often times she initiated. There was a period of time too that I was having to say no being it was so often. About 10 years ago with a staff change where she worked she started to change. Found out the new staff were very religious and straight laced women. It influenced my wife too. Five years ago my wife ended up with medical issues. It affected her to the point of she no longer is sexual in any respect.
Married 26 years. Three years ago I started seeing a gender therapist. Finally got my wife to talk to her when I said I was tired of sneaking around and hiding my things. Now she understands and accepts my need for cross dressing. ...and yes, its an actual need. It helps me feel normal. If she would only play with me when I'm dressed my heart would sing
Together 20 years now and my wife is sexually very lazy and boring. She likes sex but is lazy as hell. From when we had kids back in 2008 and 2010 and up to 2015, I was very, very sexually frustrated. Before then we had a normal vanilla but fun and regular sex life. I have learnt that I will always need to push, initiate and explore, or our sex life will die, or I will die of boredom. Since 2015 I have been really pushing her boundaries and I must continue to do it to keep our relationship alive. She will never, ever start anything but she is reluctantly willing to do it for me. From 2014 I started pushing her to dress a bit chic-sexy and I started introducing sex toys (dildos, bondage). She was okay with it. Then I discovered penis sleeves, she was again open to using them and liked it. This then led to me discovering that I liked the loose feeling after a big sleeve. I researched it and found a way to gradually and painlessly stretch her out and that lot's of women loved it. This led to probably the best change and phase of our sex life. The kids would go to bed at 7pm and then using two hands I would play and stretch her pussy for a good hour or so while watching TV. Usually then give her an almighty fuck with some huge sleeves. Between 2015 and 2019 it led to our most active, intense and fun years of our sex lives with both of us loving her loose pussy, and her often asking for the huge sleeves. The kids are a bit older now and do not go to bed anymore at 7pm so we are again at a crossroads. For a few months I have been annoyed with her for being as lazy and boring as hell, but I have again realised I have to lead again. I get totally sick of it sometimes, so to make it fun, I tell myself I am going to punish her for being lazy and boring by wrecking her pussy for other men. She can lie there with her legs spread, doing nothing but I am going to make sure that I will have my fun and she will also have her lazy pleasure.
My wife and I were sexually active when we married years ago. Now, she is medically and physically unable due to certain issues. We've talked about it, but we can't seem to agree on a compromise or a solution. When I was younger, I played around, and I miss it most days. I'd like to have a playmate again, or be a playmate.
My wife is generally lazy sexually and if I don't take the lead our sex life would be extremely boring or would die and our relationship would finish. It annoy's me sometimes, but I've decided I am going to turn this to my advantage by dominating her in bed, persuading her to do stuff, and at the same time stretching her pussy to bit's. I am making her my private slut, and her pussy will be wrecked for most men who like normal pussy. She knows that this is what I like and what I am doing. I am sending her very sexual emails several times a week telling her what I will do to her and how I love her wrecked pussy. I send her links to porn, porn pictures, links to sex stories. I push her to look good and dress sexy. I am putting a lot of energy into keep her regularly thinking about sex. She still really enjoys sex so I know I I push her we will have the payback. She seems to now like that I take 99.99% of the sexual lead and follows me, sometimes reluctantly but still follows me. So my opinion is if the woman is sexually inactive, and it's not due to physical issues then be the boss, fuck her to bits and if she still won't then she has to let you have a fuck buddy.
My wife and I are on such a sexual low that I’m getting carpel tunnel. She has medical issues that stop her from wanting sex and when she does, which is rare, that I can’t keep it up. I’ve gotten used to the lack of sex. I hope some day we start back up again but she’s going through menopause and every time I mention sex she’s having hot flashes or spotting or some other stuff.
Talk about insatiable, that described my spouse years ago. If I didn't suggest some kind of adventurous sex escapade she did. For over thirty years we engaged in a torrid sex life fucking each other in many places and positions. Even through pregnancy and then menopause there wasn't many lulls in our sex life. Then she caught a disease and that was that. She can't anymore.
eople get married for numerous reasons and sometimes sex isn't one of them. Most people have plenty of sex with someone before they get married and have a good grasp on whether or not they're good in bed so when they get married and the sex wasn't that good it/s usually for other reasons. Love, comfort, convenience, financial stability, etc. And then some people get married based mostly\ on the great sex they have with the person even if the other areas are weak and that's rarely a good thing.
My wife and I had a great adventurous sexual relationship. She absolutely loved fucking in the dunes along the Gulf of Mexico, in the salt water of the gulf (i don't recommend), along the trails when we were backpacking, under the stars at night on the beach or in a meadow. She gave me a blowjob on a bench on a dock while we were waiting to get into a restaurant. My new partner is quite adventurous in bed but not so much outside in semi-public places.
