Who is the more sexually adventurous ?

My girlfriend loves to pleasure me, she loves giving blowjobs and it pretty much always up for sex. The only thing she wont do is anal which is a bit if a shame. However she is quite happy to rim me, use a dildo on me and strap it on and ride me. Im pretty lucky i think. The only other thing i would quite like to tick off the old sex bucket list is a threesome. But i know how they can ruin relationships. However i would still love to have a cock in my ass while im fucking her. Just have to make do with the dildo.

 

We all have to live with our own circumstances and sometimes we don't always get what we want! I am a believer in chatting about what I would like to do sexually whilst fucking. This has worked for me in the past and I think everyones natural defences are down as the climax of the moment takes over. Worth a try?

 

I agree with you, I think sex is the result of love mostly, but love could not be the result of sex.So, in the second case by cooling down the sex the love vanishes gradually.

 

Almost always my partner is more proactive than me, but I think that I do not want to take the initiative because there is almost no kissing and intimacy in the relationship.
It is difficult for me to make the first move because I feel that in most cases I am not wanted, and I don't really want to try to get at least some tactile sensations in return.
My partner does not reveal himself romantically in any way and I don't want anything anymore.

 

Adding to a earlier post on this thread. My wife and have come to realize, in our relationship, that we can’t possibly be everything to each other, all the time. Especially in our personal sex life. Why…because it’s Personal and Individual. To keep sexual frustrations from happening in our relationship, we have opened previously closed doors. Best thing we have every done for our relationship.

 

Surely adds to the whole thing doesn't it !

 

It is definitely myself that has the least hang-ups and more adventurous with sex. I have often initiated the adventurous side of our sex life. She does the romantic side. It's a great combination that has worked well for us over the years. Before we met I was already having adventurous sex. Sex in public. Enjoying nudism with an exhibitionist twist. Engaging with call girls in Nevada brothels. A lot of out of the norm bedroom sex even though I was game for many scenarios played out inside the bedroom. I believe this was due to my first love. The woman who introduced me to sex. She initiated and introduced a lot of different sexual activities to me which spurred my adventurous imagination.

When my spouse and I met it was slow at the beginning. No sex for the first few weeks of dating. I would date her and part for the evening only to find myself back between the legs of my first love. Over time I became drawn to my spouse more and more and finally we had sex. Little did I know she lusted for me right from the start. From then on we met each others needs and desires. Even then I initiated the adventurous sex while she remained reserved. But, as it is said, a wife should be a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom. This is exactly what I discovered my spouse was. Once I became aware of her willingness to go with me and her desire to have her way with me behind closed doors the combination resulted in a relationship that will remain unbroken until death.