my fault or his

there will just about always be someone other than the attended that will notice things like this, who's fault, no ones, it just happened. too many ladies get upset when someone other than the intended audience notices, it happens. take it as a compliment. not meaning to imply that it upset you, just that some ladies freak out

 

I think in this situation, a girl showing a lot of leg in a bar, deliberately then if another guys spots it then fair enough, he may not be able to tell he wasn't the target, or indeed if there was one rather than anyone. However he mustn't be an ass if it's later obvious it wasn't aimed at him.

 

One of the greatest indoor sports of at least the last 2,000 years.

A little flash of some sexy part now and then, sometimes more than a little. Most women I've asked or read about say it's just a bit of fun for them and reassuring that they're still attractive. Nothing more serious than that. No come-on or such.

I'd estimate 80% just use it for some brief excitement to break up the day's routine.

 

as long as i'm the one she goes home with, then i'm all for her having some fun. Nothing wrong is she still has it to flaunt it

 

I've been on both sides of this. My wife has purposely shown off parts to get men turned. She originally did it because I asked her to flaunt it, but it was clear she got turned on by it as well.

I have also had women, while out with my wife, sexually flirt with me or show me a little something from across the room. Sometimes they will look right at me and do it to see my reaction, and other times it is more subtle. In either case, I see no problem with it. My wife enjoys turning on other men, and I enjoy her being sexual. My wife is not as big as a fan of other women doing it to me, but though I am not looking for someone to take me home, I do enjoy knowing that women still find me sexually attractive, and I enjoy the turn on.

As to your question is anyone at fault, in my opinion, I don't think so. Certainly if you wish to show it, that is yours to own (and for one, I am glad you do), but I may have been one of those other men that noticed you from across the bar and found you attractive. Hopefully if someone chooses to compliment you, you can accept it as just that, and you always have the right to say, thank you and just walk away.

 

I pull up to the gas pump and begin filling my tank. As I waited for the fuel to run in I noticed several men keeping watch on the vehicle in front of me albeit from a distance. The hood was up and the driver was doing something. That's when I see it is a woman checking her engine. She drops the hood and comes back to the filler neck of her car. She is dressed, and I say that loosely, in a halter top and pleated mini skirt. As she tends to the nozzle the wind lifts her skirt and I get the full view of what the other men were looking at. Yes, she was bare assed naked under the skirt, She turns in a way to where the breeze lifts the front as she hangs up the nozzle while her bare pussy invites my erection. With that she finishes fueling and hops into her car, pulls forward to one of the men, and pauses. They talk briefly and she drives off. He has a huge shit eating grin on his face and we all enjoyed the show. You know whose fault that was? Hers, of course. She was exhibiting herself intentionally for our pleasure and hers and I didn't mind one bit.

 

It would be her fault. My girlfriend liked flashing, some nights she would take her panties off. to give a good show.

 

Yours.