Have you altered your sexual attitude to be acceptable & Safe at your age. I haven't noticed too many women lining up to fuck a Grandpa. Fact is, Sex with a younger hot woman would probably hospitalize or kill me, if my wife didn't Having limited Bi experiences has taught me that its a lot less stress with the same end result. Have you altered your sexual lifestyle to accomodate your age and health.
I am not interested in pursuing a woman for sex - haven't cared about it enough, and I've had plenty of sex with men to keep me satisfied. A guy asked me recently if I would have sex with a woman again - She would have to pursue the hell out of me for me to do it - but I think it could happen, if the mood and the lighting was right. LOL. as far as altering my sexual attitude at 66 years old? I wish I was this confident when I was 26. I have enjoyed sex with a variety of men in a variety of ways, and the ages of the men have ranged from older than me, to way younger - like the age of my adult children (which kind of bends my mind) age 30. The first time I was with a young man, I felt a bit uncomfortable, but I soon was re-assured that he likes older men because of our experience and confidence and willingness to enjoy our partner at the moment with little complication and a whole lot of passion. Life is too short to live it on a shelf.
While I don't think I will ever loose the desire to get crazy with a woman. The actuality of that happening is history. I had two bi experiences and doubt there will be another. My inhibitions have vanished and I would if I could. Im blessed that my wife feeds my old guy lust with her strapon. She will get into a craze for a couple of days and then cool off. She knows that a good ass fucking and mouthful of cum will always bring my spirits back.
Actually I take more risks at 70 than I did at 60. More so than I did at 50 and younger. Getting into my senior years I realize I don't have as much to lose such as a job / career. etc. Marriage is at a point to where we are companions, best friends, caretakers, and roommates for each other. I still have a deep love and enjoy being around my spouse but sexually, that life with her is over. Yes. It's now on to other sexual adventures for me. Some FWB, some PFP. No same sex relations but I haven't ruled that out either. Always safe as in the use of protection from disease. Otherwise I take risks that I wouldn't have taken years ago. Thanks to advances in medicine it looks like I will be able to enjoy my sexual side for a time yet to be determined. My time is now much shorter on this earth. With that thought I have altered my sexual lifestyle to accommodate my age and health. Doctor visits are more frequent. I seek medical methods that may not be mainstream but are effective. As I age further I know the body is going to fail. So I'm doing what I can before that reality sets in.
I feel the same as straight male commented, my wife and I are simply companions but share a need to share our bodies with others. Being semi retired we do a lot of thing together in and out of the bedroom. She is obviously more into sex than I am and her frequency is amazing. Lucky for us we have a very private group of like minded friends who satisfy both our needs. I have a friend, I will call him Tim, he is almost a daily visitor to our bed, I have come home countless times to see his bare ass pounding her. I have a neighbor lady who I frequent at least twice a week. She has an hairy ol snatch but loves to fuck. It’s all of us older fucks who were to shy or stupid to play when we were younger. Now we are just a bunch of older seniors who enjoy sharing.
I have found out that since I reached retirement age, Senior women are hitting on me all the time, at restaurants, the mall, Garage sales, museums , you name it. I suspect that the supply of ambulatory, breathing males is diminishing. This leaves lots of ladies tired of eating out with their female friends or going to church. I am sure that they are not expecting older to consistently produce a yummy phallus. The may be satisfied with an affectionate male companion.
I was hoping to try everything while I'm young so I can have youg partner's. Married with kidsakes it hard to seek out new experiences. Seems like there's still a lot to explore in later years.
Kids are observant little learning sponges but there are ways. We spent a summer in a campground where I had to work on a project for my company. It was rather cozy in the camper and the atmosphere warranted increased libido. We only found out many years later that the kiddies enjoyed our nightly fucking rocking the camper that put them to sleep. It's good for the family when mom and dad express love for each other while not making a spectacle of themselves. Even with kids we had many sexual adventures.
This is probably not relevant, but it came to mind. I live next to a Middle school. One day I was walking by the school on my way to the grocery store. Students were getting off for the day and were crowding the sidewalk. Two sharp shinned hawks were on a telephone wire next to the school watching the kids. All of a sudden the male hawk mounted the female and began copulating with her. The kids stopped walking and began intently watching the two birds. The kids immediately started laughing at the scene. The girls covered their mouths but there was intense interest. When the male bird finished, he returned to the side of the female and continued to watch the kids.
I'm gay and now in my 70s, and am getting far more sex than in my 30s. I'm also fucking much younger guys (18+ teens preferred).