My wife and I have gotten to a point where we don’t have sex. The only thing I get is the pleasure of eating her about twice a year. We have hardly had mutual oral sex. I still have the desire for anything sexual but my medicine and her starting into menopause, our conflicting schedules we just don’t have sex anymore. I miss getting blown but I won’t ever stop giving it to my wife.
My ex wife loved when I gave her oral sex. Moaned, thrust her hips, played with my hair, screamed in pleasure when she came. Zero interest in reciprocating. Told me to get lost. Treated my cock like it was poison. Awfully frustrating. That's part of why I had my affair.
Thus the divorce. Should have learned this lesson sooner. Told both of my sons to be aware of anyone who behaves this way.
Part of the "things I wish my father would have warned me about".....looking back, I dunno how he held on so long... And then again, there were 8 of us kids, so I know one thing that must have been good...
It's a tale as old as humanity. (1) I think that she is selfish (2) No I would not. I have not and now have a dead bedroom. But, at least it's my choice.