Talking with men who fucked your wife before you.

Did you ever let any of them have a go at it?

 

The first person my wife introduced me to after we got together was a man that she'd lived with for ten years. Also, another guy she'd been dating was already a friend of mine.

We invited both of them to our wedding. It never bothered me that they remained friends. Strangely, it didn't work the other way round. She felt theatened by my ex-partner and was worried she'd not match up to how good my ex had been in bed.

 

I don't have anyone to talk to who fucked my wife before me, as I'm the guy to whom she lost her virginity.

However...

During her senior year in high school, she had a steady boyfriend who'd take her out on dates, get her completely nude, and then do just about everything to her EXCEPT actually fuck her. He'd have done that too, except that she absolutely refused to let him. (Her older sister had gotten an abortion following an unwanted pregnancy, and my wife was terrified of it happening to her.) Consequently, her boyfriend would massage and suck on her tits, play with her pussy, finger-fuck her, you name it. Everything except fuck her. They finally broke up just before graduation, because she was sick and tired of him pressuring her for sex all the time.

The way that I know all of this is that, years after we got married, she told me, and didn't spare the details.

 

...or how wet she was .......

 

She had a reputation for being very tight.

 

As in normally a guy slides it in and is pumping her full in a few strokes

 

So was my wife . I just think my buddy wasn't aware that he was enjoying silky seconds . Then again maybe she enjoyed his ( thicker than mine ) cock enough to get wetter !

 

When my wife and I started seeing each other, I was sure she was very inexperienced, rural girl in the big city and all that. This was backed up by the way her pussy was when we fucked, nice and snug and very wet. Found out years later that the one guy she'd been with for the two years before me had fucked her just over 200 times! But her pussy was still tight. And she got so wet because she said she wasn't used to much foreplay, that he used to just get on her and fuck her and leave. One side benefit was with anal, she opened up quite easily and liked it.

 

Sadly my wife was never interested in, or could be convinced to try , anal .

 

Well, it was only a now-and-then thing which faded out in time. Though she still likes a finger wiggling in there. Still good for my imagination of the little inexperienced country girl with that other guy plugging her there frequently.

 

We have to play the hand we're dealt and enjoy every minute of it .

 

Maybe in time! Thanks for sharing.

 

Similar here. After four or five nice-for-both times over several years, the last time things were going as usual when, as the entry happened she yelled, "Ow, ow, ow, stop, stop!" Something had changed and that was the end of that. Oh, well, good memories (and a few photos).

 

Years ago, I did meet a guy my wife had dated briefly. I know he fucked her a couple of times. I was no big deal at all. Especially since she has met my ex-wife many times!

 

I never cared about any woman’s past that I dated. Talking to a guy that fucked get before me wouldn’t bother me at all.

 

My wife has two kids from a previous marriage so I had to be cordial with her ex on a regular basis. I think it was more awkward for her at times than anyone else.

 

Maybe she was hoping her ex didn't share any of her " secrets " !

 

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I posted in this thread a few years back when I had not spoken directly to any of the men who fucked my wife but instead was turned on by what my wife told me about those encounters. Well, that has changed and I remembered this thread and so here I am. A little background: My wife is Japanese, and I am a white American. We lived in Japan together for quite a few years during which time she had sex with a number of other white men (with my permission). All of her encounters were either one-nighters or very short-term flings, except one with an Englishman named Mark, whom I found on Facebook, friended him and asked him about my wife, Keiko, He told me that HE still fantasizes about those days when she would spend the night at his place and share her petite body and tight hole with him. It seems we both still masturbate over those memories: him while thinking about fucking her tiny body and me thinking about him fucking her. Their mutual love of soccer brought them together at a party and from there she introduced him to a local league where he began to play and she'd go to the games, often driving him there as he didn't have a car and that is where the relationship began. Keiko had told me that Mark thought it would be easy to get with Japanese women but it was a bigger challenge than he expected and she was his only sexual release. Mark confirmed this telling me he never wasted a chance to either fuck her or at least be sucked off by her and they did it loads of times. What I didn't know was how often he ate her pussy because she asked him to do it. I am not a big fan of oral sex so Keiko never wasted a chance either to get eaten out completely. Mark also told me he hasn't had a body or hole as tight as hers since and sometimes looks at Asian porn and thinks of her. I also never knew how often she would slip over to his place during the week aside from the more "formal" times when I knew they were together. I miss those days and apparently, he does too