Well this is odd, there is a guy whos girlfreind does not like to have her G spot touched at all and barley likes to climax! SO ladies why would you all wish not to climax and why would your G spot be something you dont like?
It pisses me off when I don't have an earth shattering orgasm, by clit only. I had a guy try to give me a g spot 1 once & I couldn't tolerate it. The g spot orgasm makes ya feel like ya gotta pee. Hell maybe now I'd just go with it & piss all over the guy.
mmm..i'm very suspicious about this guy's claim...is it really true a woman would deny herself an orgasm?? I'm a woman, and i can honestly say, thats such bullshit.
Hmm. I have heard about women who are asexual, meaning that though they can love, they have little or no sex drive. I usually treat orgams as something that I could take or leave. They get good (Damned good), but they're not the be all and end all. Just get it done and over with and get on with business, you know?
there are many different reasons for this: natural hormone imbalance, depression, little or no self esteem, previous sexual abuse (whether blocked out or not, which is a whole other issue) I've been (and known enough people in my life who) have been mistreated sexually and it plays a pretty big role in your sex life. Even if it happened years ago, decades ago, it can be very hard for a woman to let herself climax as she can feel very vulnerable at this time and it can be emotionally difficult to deal with. If this is how a woman is feeling at the point of climax, her feelings are going to take over and she's going to make it stop, or not let herself enjoy it. I've been there many times. Luckily i've taken a big leap this year and have worked at getting over many things, and am now having REAL sex. fucking sweet it is. It's a touchy subject to tackle with her though; if it's because of past sexual abuse, those memories and feelings may be locked pretty tightly in a box so far down inside that she may not want to even go near those feelings ever again. To open that box could take years of work, and it's hard to be motivated to want to do that. If they're not locked up, they may be permanantly blocked out so much so that she doesn't even know it happened to her. I have a friend who was molested, who is certain her sister had to have been as well, yet the sister recalls nothing. She's also a dud in bed, does nothing, feels nothing, is 30 something, has 4 kids and has never had an orgasm in her life.
When you get the urge to pee your supposed to go with it. Thats generally what the guy is going for. What you squirt isn't actually pee.
