Bi men and aging

My wife is the one who suggested Bi as an alternative. She said she wouldn't be OK with a woman ( I would) because it could lead to trouble and baggage we don't need,but she approves of getting/giving a blowjob or more from a friend is no big deal. She is an old fag hag and loves to watch. We do it and go home.

 

Sounds like the best of both worlds when the wife is active any longer. I could see where the female could present a problem. I think it's great you both think a like.

 

I love my wife and we still have sex, I’m 68 and she is 70, but she doesn’t really care about sex. I do want to be with men, but my life is so busy it is hard to get away to engage. I prefer men my age or older. I haven’t been with a man in three years now, but my head is full of gay sec thoughts. I was 61 the first time I was with a man and boy was it good. I do regret not taking advantage in my younger years, but what can you say?

 

Men can have sex without the emotional element, few women can and if you meet a woman who has recreational sex, she has emotional problems. Having sex with men is best because you shouldn’t have to worry about relationship issues

 

Your absolutely right. I agree totally.

 

My personal opinion is, IF you are a male, having sex with a gay/bi best buddy, then that, coupled with the EMOTIONAL bond between you, the SEXUAL bonding part would be all the more INTENSE and SATISFYING.

Of course, in all honesty, I cannot speak from any personal experiences, but this is how I have always felt............

 

"Labeling" a man because of his sexual desires and tastes is truly redundant.

As long as the sex involves people who are of legal age, and all parties are consenting, forget the labels and just enjoy the SEX, period!!!!!!!!

Just my opinion...........

 

......hats off to ANY senior/elderly gent who can still "rise to the occasion" without the use of Viagra (I'm sure his partner/sex bud would likewise agree!)

 

Yes my desire for sex - with younger men as I age increases . But now it’s self love as after separate living it’s difficult to find true friends in NZ

 

Good to find this forum and hope to find friends for love and sex

 

Where are you from Barefoot Rick?

 

I’m from the USA I live in Utah and I would like to be friends if you want to it would be nice to chat about being bisexual and at my age ( I’m 53 years old) it not easy finding guy’s to chat with but I have found some on this forum and they are awesome to chat with

 

53?

13 years my junior.......heck, I'd KILL to be 53 again (I wasn't all gray then!)

 

None of us relishes the idea of aging (yours truly included); it would appear that-for senior gay/bisexual guys aging can (and often does) present challenges that straight guys need not worry about encountering-----options for partners (sexual/otherwise) begin to be in short supply; health-of course-is a top priority-but-for a gay senior guy without a life-partner------or a senior bi guy who no longer has the "choices" that he once had (regarding bi/gay buddies)-----things indeed can get pretty frustrating-----and lonely; let's face it------aging is NO "walk in the park" for ANY of us-regardless of sexuality-------------------

 

I'm thinking that older straight men aren't getting a pass on those things, either. At 68, do I still have choices? Sure, I do because I know that everyone is fair game until they prove themselves not to be. I prefer to have sex and with anyone who (a) is old enough to consent to sex, (b) is healthy enough to have sex and, (c) isn't my idea of an asshole or a ****. That has always kept my options open throughout my life to date. Yeah, getting older sucks and, um, sometimes, it sucks in a good way, too. And if someone is lonely, well, isn't that on them? More than likely a decision they made and not really an inability to find someone suitable for sex or even romance? Yeah, I ain't going out like that...

 

KDaddy: All in all "we are ALL in this together"-race-religion-sexuality--------NONE of this has any connection to the pitfalls of aging-----if-indeed- we are fortunate enough to "grow old gracefully"-at least we can AGE-----BUT still retain both our dignity and our independence-----which we-sadly- all take for granted------

 

We take it for granted right up to the moment we learn not to. I point back to the 68-year-old I met when I was in my 40s and how life had dealt him some serious blows, from losing his wife to going through prostate cancer treatment and surgery and even though he admitted that (a) he rarely got an erection and (b) he even rarely managed to ejaculate... something, he was determined to keep having sex by telling me that his mouth and ass worked just fine and he would take on any guy to come and use his mouth and ass for their pleasure... and his. I was so impressed by him and his outlook as well as his determination to not give up having sex and just roll over and die and probably like so many men do.

I found his reasoning to be sound and, yeah, if my dick stops working, there's nothing wrong with my mouth - I can still suck dick and eat pussy - and my ass will be available to be fucked because the unthinkable - giving up sex - ain't gonna cut it with me. But I have the "advantage" of being bisexual which is very much a part of my independence and inner dignity...

 

KDaddy23: Those of us fortunate enough to "fight back" in the face of serious health issues (as well as other serious issues) at-the least-allows us the chance to fight back as best we can-and not to just accept it as "the end of the line"----at least NOT without a FIGHT------of course-when things really get to the "point of no return"-I think it STILL requires a great deal of inner strength just to be able to pass on with dignity intact; yes---I also think we ALL take basic good health for granted-and do not realize just how lucky we are----until-one day-your life changes in a split-second------------

 

You are right about that