Do you ever fake orgasms?

It takes two to tango! You have a role in this too to share what you like and dislike with your partner - we are not mind readers...

If you want to have a fulfilling sexual relationship with someone else, you need to speak up and communicate!

It's not all the "man's fault."

 

BTW, I've faked it too and I'm a male.

Some times we're just too tired and have worked hard to please our partner first that we're all worn out after she cums.

 

Yes--I'm faking one right now.

 

After years of not having a single orgasm with my husband, a problem we had been trying to work on for a while, I faked it once to hopefully boost his self-esteem and so maybe he could actually be able to get me there. It didn't work and I told him the truth, I think it was a few weeks or months after. That was maybe 5 years into the marriage, we were together for 20 years and he never made me cum.

 

:-( so sorry!!

 

Hope you’re able to have orgasms on your own. That’s no good your ex couldn’t get you there it’s frustrating for sure

 

I'm very sorry to hear that, and as RWF said, I hope you can get there on your own if he can't do it for you!

 

I hope that you have found someone that cares enough to get it done for you.

 

Funny story.

Never mind. I’m the wrong gender.

 

I didn’t look at what forum it was posted in. I simply responded to a post in the “ new posts “ feed. If you don’t want to be inclusive, you should lock men out of it. FWIW..the “ women “ on this site are men.

 

No I'm not, although I'm sure some are.

We are not trying to lock men out but the women's forum is intended to cater to women's perspectives. Most of the rest of HF tends to lean heavily to the male perspective and you also have a dedicated men's forum too, so please don't throw around that HF is not being inclusive.

 

Thank you all, and yes I was able to get there with toys for most of my marriage and since we split, I took the time to learn how to do it with just my hand. One day I will meet someone that will be as attentive to me as I have been to my ex.

 

((((HUGS))))

 

Sorry for posting here as I'm a male...

 

I'm not sorry for posting here because I care for Moon Goddess and I am interested in her welfare and happiness.

 

I care for all women, but don't want to offend or tread where I'm not wanted...

 

Wise decision, I think.

I think we shouldn't mis-read or mis-understand the post from KathyL, especially the section regarding the posting of messages by men, about men. Let's not do that.

I too hope MG knows the techniques for self-pleasure and, indeed, has mastered them.

 

This site has a long history of problematic moderators .