When did the Curiosity end and the reality began?

It took me a while, but after that first time with a guy, I was hooked for sure. I love being bi

 

The curiosity was gone long before my first actual experience. I always kinda knew what I wanted, but the reality began the first time I ever let another guy suck my cock. Very shortly (after we drove to his house) I was sucking another guy's cock and eagerly swallowing his load for the very first time. We were/are both bottoms though, and eventually wanted to be topped, so it was a short lived experience, but it was a lot of fun while it lasted

 

Hey Dave Ty for sharing well done !

Did he taste good , do you have a desire to do it again when opportunities arise in the future ?

 

It did taste good, and yes, the desire to do it again (and again) is certainly there.
Unfortunately, the only opportunity to do it again would be with my wife and her boyfriend. He claims to be "straight" even though my wife and I know he's had sex multiple times with a mutual gay friend of theirs. I believe she's slowly talking him into a threesome with her and I (we tried once before, but he made it very awkward and it was over faster than it began), so who knows what the future holds

 

Ok cool Dave Ty for your insight all the best

 

As a married guy, my curiosity was a slow burn filled with all the guilt and shame you might expect. Ultimately I accepted that part of myself and became friends with a bi married guy around my age (mid-late 40s). It really helped me out by sharing turn-ons, fantasies, etc. Later the friend and his spouse opened up their marriage and he started looking for guys online. Long story short, we ended up in a friends with benefits arrangement.

I must say that taking his cock in my mouth for the first time felt totally natural and made me realize how silly all my hangups were.

 

Sounds like a rare find and connection especially if in your local region for convenience ? Have you opened up to your wife about your bi desires ? Or a total no go zone no need for her to know ?
I suppose if he's close by its no big deal him hanging out at your place He ain't female your wife wouldn't suspect anything

 

Mine started about four years ago when sex was no longer with my wife. My curiosity finally took over and I found I enjoyed him.

 

My wife is aware and on board with it, which is the only way that I could really do it. But she's known about my bi desires for about 3 years now and maybe it took that long for her to get behind the idea, because it was not something she took well at first.It also helps that she knows and likes him and his wife.

 

Ty for your reply , I wish you all the best exploring all together further , your wife is very special having a clear open mind supporting your bi experience mutually ...congrats mate



[UOTE="budg282, post: 9416736, member: 318999"]My wife is aware and on board with it, which is the only way that I could really do it. But she's known about my bi desires for about 3 years now and maybe it took that long for her to get behind the idea, because it was not something she took well at first.It also helps that she knows and likes him and his wife.[/QUOTE]

 

I knew I was bisexual even sense I was a teenager but it really hit me when I gave my first bj to a friend from school and I suck him until he came and sense then I needed more a hour later he suck me off and the we fucked each other for a few hours . I can’t get enough now that I’m older

 

Amazing how old now ?

 

I’m 53 years old now

 

I was curious about a lot of things in my early teens, skydiving, auto racing and sucking a cock to name a few. Never did follow through on most of them. Life went on. Got married, had kids and got divorced after 28 years. Wife was cheating on me. Remarried after a few years and my wife of 21 years is much more into making sure I'm happy both in and out of the bedroom.

We're both very oral and she introduced me to the use of toys during sex, dildos of all types, vibrating, long, fat, double ended and more. Once she was riding me reverse cowboy and using a dildo on me. I came super hard. When I pulled out there was a little blood and we thought she had begun her period. When I went to the bathroom later I passed a blood clot out of my penis. We thought we had broke it.

We often had discussions about sex and she said that since I enjoyed a dildo in my ass, I would probably really like the real thing because a real cock feels a lot better than a fake one.

After much thought about it, I finally decided to try it. I was 55 years old at the time. The first few times with a man we just traded blow jobs and yes I swallowed every time. I finally received anal and she was right. It felt really, really great..

I tell her when I get together with my friend and she is fine with it. We still have sex a good bit and given the choice between her and a man, I would pick her about 8 out of 10 times.

Life is good at 70.

 

It is something everyone thinks about. One day the thinking turns to desire and you take that first step.

 

Curiosity hit when me wife loss interest in having sex.

 

I experimented with solo anal play until I hit 40. My mom became sick and soon passed. It rocked my very existence. And I reevaluated a lot of things. I started getting closer and closer to the line. Started hanging out in gay forums and actually identifying as bisexual. Took a lot to get that definition to come out of me. Dad died 7 years later. With them no longer here to be disappointed, I decided it was time.

 

At the age of 50. No sex with LL wife. At first, I tried women when the psychologist recommended that. I had clinical depression. I was too nervous to get a good hard-on. Performance anxiety. I Hooked up with a frustrated bi guy and pulled each other off in a car. That was too public so he and I found an older bi guy with his own apartment, who provided a cock sucking service. My friend and the old guy started sucking each other off then I added my cock to the mix and one of them sucked me. There was a 5 inch stiff cock right in front of me, so I started sucking it and I loved it. Then quickly I found myself lying back being sucked off while the other guy straddled me and put his stiff cock into my mouth. Long lust driven cock sucking sessions with the 3 of us giving and receiving followed. The old guy wanted all the come out of everyone's cock shot into his mouth and I was a bit nervous about taking those long streams of come myself so there it all went. My wife was fine with whatever I did with the two of them. Mostly I visited the old bi guy alone and spent all afternoon and into the evening with him sucking me off every which way. I'd stand in front of him and pump load after load into his mouth. Even when we sat and chatted over unrelated events, he'd be pulling me and playing with my balls. I felt so fulfilled and satisfied. I need that again.

 

I got introduced to the reality first; the "curiosity" - wanting to know more about sex and why everyone said that boys having sex with each other was evil when... it wasn't evil at all - led to a gazillion questions that had to be answered. And so much sex to be had. Learning to be okay with being so different - not really straight but not really gay and then not letting the bullshit steal my joy found in being intimate with both men and women.

 

I never went through a curious phase. It never entered my mind to have sex with a guy. I was actually homophobic before I was seduced by a man when I was in my early 20s. I felt so conflicted during this seduction, but also turned on. Finally, I just dropped all my hangups and went for it.

After I came in his mouth and took a sensual shower with him, I remained bisexual for the rest of my life.