I never had to consider it until my wife was finished with Sex for herself. We discussed our options and we were open to bi experimentation. My wife tried bi with another woman , but I wasn't party to the experience. The bi option for me became something to seriously consider. The perfect partner was available and willing. My wife was instrumental in making it happen. Cheating wasn't in my mindset, so this acceptable option peaked my interest and we made it happen . I wasn't curious anymore. Were you always interested or only when it became a viable option?
I was never curious about it; I got introduced to it and found it to my liking so this has been a part of my life ever since. I've known so many other men who've been curious about having sex with guys and I've helped them satisfy that curiosity but having that curiosity is... foreign to me and just like having it and being an adult is which I suppose is a "disadvantage" when you become bisexual at a young age and, as such, it's the only real and viable option and more so when I proved to myself that I love the sex that's possible and, yeah, I seriously love sucking dick and eating pussy and having sex does not get any better when you can enjoy the best of both sexual worlds.
I was curious even as a young man. But wrote it off as just that, a curiosity. I got married and enjoyed straight sex exclusively with my wife. The bi curiosities never went away but I was getting plenty of sex at home so it was easier to bury them. Little by little it became harder and harder to ignore. Finally thinking I could try sucking a mans cock just once to satisfy the urge I did. I felt guilty for doing it so I didn’t repeat the experience for several years. But I was hooked. I loved it and wanted it. Over time I figured out letting a guy suck me was pretty good too. Fast forward in my mid 60’s, my wife has zero interest in sex and trying to talk her into it just doesn’t work, I need my partner to want to. I want that person to desire me. I have found that there are plenty of men that do just that, they like my cock and my ass. They also are enthusiastic about my cock sucking skills, my body in general. It feels good to be appreciated and desired.
A lot of guys find that the curiosity never goes away and doing something once... compels them to do it again despite feeling guilty over having, say, sucked dick with a guy. Then it's like, "Why did I wait so long to do this?" or "What was I afraid of?" I don't know any guys who weren't curious about it; didn't mean that they really wanted it satisfied because such things are too gay and all that crap. But many of those guys got hit with the curiosity and had to do something about it and, yeah, thinking that once they sucked dick or got sucked by a guy, it was going to go away... Nope.
The first 10 years of my first marriage consisted of having sex 4-6 times a week for the first four years and after having kids the frequency began to drop to once or twice a week, then once or twice a month, and eventually once or twice a year as I was jerking off to porn far more often than I felt I should be doing. Having turned down propositions from other gay men for years I finally gave in one afternoon and was given a fantastic blowjob. Many blowjobs later I started asking the guys sucking me off what it's like to suck a dick. One afternoon while being sucked a dick was offered and I was loving how it felt in my mouth to then feel guilty going home. The off/on sex with my wife was frustrating as I found myself mutually sucking with other guys as the feelings of guilt disappeared. I evolved into a cock sucker and wanted cock all the time. Many times, sucking off multiple guys to return home to hear my wife say she wanted to have sex. It wasn't the same anymore as she got so vanilla, no longer fucking in different positions as we once did. I found more pleasure in sucking a guy's cock for 40-60 minutes versus having sex with her. I was now sucking dick 4-6 times a week as she lost interest in sex all together.
Well my curiosity hit me when I was fifteen years old. Reading some stuff, thinking about it (there is a strong possibility my older brother may have had me suck his cock when I was 6 years old but I have no direct memory of it, just memories around that time have made me about 99.9% sure he did) and one day playing with myself I found out that by throwing my legs over my head and pressing on the headboard that I could get about half the head of my own dick in my mouth. After that it just made me wonder what it would be like to not have to strain and be able to easily put a whole cock in my mouth. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I actually got enough courage to find out… and find out that I really liked the look, feel, and taste of a nice cock in my mouth. The second time I was in a 3 way with two guys, I was 69’ing with one and when his cock head started swelling up and his balls started getting tight I realized I hadn’t thought that far ahead but it felt so erotic I wasn’t about to pull his dick out. When he started spurting I just started swallowing as fast as I could. Tried anal a few times but it’s not really my thing. So far in the 50 years since then I’ve probably sucked about 25-35 cocks.
Curiosity was thrust upon me when my girlfriend rented a video with two guys and a woman. At first the guys attention was focused on the woman's body, then one of the guys grabbed the other guys cock. I may have stopped breathing for a moment. My girlfriend was watching me closely to see my response, especially when one of the guys took his buddies cock in his mouth. I didn't know what to think, society tells us its wrong but they seemed happy. I had no illusions later when she approached me with the idea of a threesome with a guy.
That was my experience. She tries to dilate her vag as the doctor says but my cock comes anywhere near and she slams shut. The cocsuckers I visited with her permission were keen and had boundless enthusiasm to suck me off and have me suck them. I have rarely found such boundless enthusiasm with the women I've had sex with. Maybe it's me.
When the door to the vagina was locked, other doors to satisfaction were opened. As a matter of fact, she was the Key to an alternate door of bi sex. Even though experiences are far inbetween, they are all deeply satisfying and welcomed.
When my--now I know was a--gay relationship from 8-13 years of age with my best friend of the same age ended, and rather badly, I repressed all my gay desires until my first girlfriend of 3 years (who took my straight virginity at 27) broke up with me near Toronto where I was living. Three months later while still on a road trip that started immediately after the break up, gay desires spontaneously arose in my mind in a very powerful way while driving through Washington state. After buying gay porn magazines that evening, I had the longest and best masturbation session of my life to that date that night in a motel room, with the most powerful orgasm in my then 30 years. Thus my bicuriosity began. A week later I had my first adult cock waving 2 inches from my face at a striptease show in the Castro district of San Francisco. However, it still took many months of feeding my bicuriosity with endless jerking off to gay porn until I finally repeated it, a guy's cock in my face, this time through a glory hole in a video arcade in Toronto. But this time I kissed that beautiful cock, licked it, and finally took it into my mouth and once again enjoyed sucking a penis. OMG! I was hooked! But it still took sucking 200+ cocks over a 20 year period before I truly accepted that I was a bisexual man, when, at 51, I went crazy insane tonguefucking a guy's ass again and finally inserting my cock into another man's asshole again and fucking him. It took that action of intercourse with a guy to allow myself to really get in touch with and happily accept the gay side of myself, deeply buried, despite sucking so many cocks. Then, finally, shortly after breaking up with girlfriend#2, at 57, after another 3-year stormy straight relationship, I lost all desire to ever again have even a casual sexual relationship, let alone a romantic one, with a woman. From then onwards I have only been interested in sex, and even love, with guys. I now consider myself a 90% gay man (I still find women attractive--hence that 10%). Why oh why did I repress my homosexuality for all those years?! High school, university and all those youthful adult years could've been so much fun! It's now in my senior years that I can finally live my truth. OMG, does it ever feel wonderful!
For me, I believe it's always been there but suppressed. It still is, sort of speak. I'm an assman, so I love the sight, feel, of a plump ass. So naturally, women stood to the front of that line. I've had few straight sexual relationships (meaning I was never out there dating, one-night standing, hooking up, etc.) to satisfy that need. It was just me and my hand in between those relationships. I'm currently in straight LTR with a wonderful woman, so I'm extremely happy. However, the curiosity bug stirred when I was in my mid to late teens. Viewing porn was a secret leisure so over time, I became curious on how it will feel to have something in my ass. It started with a finger and I was hooked ever since. Fast forward - in my mid 40's. I've since evolved to using toys and have increase in toy size since then. Then one day during pillow talk, my girl asked would I be willing to be fucked by another guy. We're open with one another and trust and communication has been well established by now. So I said, I thought about it. By now, we've already engaged in sex with toys both on me and her. Strapons especially. I even have a fuck machine (well worth the money, by the way) so this convo was expected. I then told her, I even thought about sucking a dick. She thought that would be interesting to see. As of now, I have yet to have my anal cherry popped by the real thing or indulge in the succulence of actually sucking dick. Maybe one day.
At 63 my path has been a long one. My first bi-experience was at a adult book store. I mainly went there to masterbate. I was watching porn and jacking off when the door opened and a guy came in. He took ahold of me cock and started sucking me off. Being super horny I didn't protest and came quickly. I proceeded to get up quickly, and went home and took a shower as I felt somewhat "dirty". But at the same time I enjoyed the experience. I had several more encounters like that before I returned the favor. My first time and ackward and I was nervous as fuck. I also felt empowered as I sucked him off. I didn't swallow, but did enjoy the after taste in my mouth. That was about 40 years ago in San Antonio. Fast forward to today and I still enjoy giving oral relief to those I need.