I Think I am Bi...this normal?

ok im going to describe this..

I have a girlfriend who i love very much.. We have amazing sex and I am extremely attracted to her... i stay hard around her! and women Period. I love women, there bodies... Licking their pussys and making them cum. I can never get Blow jobs tho.. and i love Bj's so i posted an add online looking for a regular dick sucker... and 100 guys answered. they were sending me pics. and i noticed I was turned on by cocks. only really nice apealing the the eye cocks. if they are not a certain how they gross me out.. most of them gross me out.
i put it off and put it off then i figured who would know how to suck a dick better than a guy?? i could write a book on doing it and i have never even done it... so i let a guy suck me off.. and it was just what i thought it would be... I let him do it one time after that as well... right now Another guy sucks my dick whenever i want.. best BJ i ever had... amazing... I somtimes play with his cock. thats as far as i even want to go.. the thaught of kissing a dude grosses me out.. and sucking him. gross, and fucking and getting fucked grosses me out.. So is this nomal in anyway?

 

Sounds like you are picky lol. I thought it was weird to kiss a guy at first, but then it became a beautiful thing to me, and now I only enjoy making out with men. I find your story a little weird because most men would rather make out with a guy over playing with his dick. They would find that really gross. I wouldn't worry too much on the "bi" thing. You like what you like and that is that. I don't understand how something so simple could gross someone out... eating shit would gross me out but making out? You sound uptight.

 

I think you may be putting too much into this. If you enjoy something, do it. If you do not enjoy something, or are not ready to do something, dont. Your heart and dick will guide you pretty well. On the note : is this normal? , well no, not really. But who wants to be normal and who is to tell you what is normal. The majority of people in this world are not gay, have no gay tendencies. Fuck them. You do what makes you happy. You are perfect, make them adjust. Go have some fun.

 

nothing wrong with you it is that you like - see I thought I was gay until 27 I fucked my first girl and thought wow, thats different and loved it. I for example would not like to lick or eat pussy at all, fucking girls, yes, but not licking them. So I guess that mirrors what you think...

 

Yea I kinda see where Harrypot is coming from...

I'm definitely not gay or bi, but the thought of licking someone's vagina sounds really disgusting.

Just have fun with your life, and do what makes you happy. 'Sounds like you and your girlfriend have A LOT of fun together xD

 

im the same way harrypot, i'll bang a girl but wont eat her out, eeeewwwwwwwwwwww! even getting a look is enough at times to turn the stomach.

 

Yes it is normal I am BI and love it

 

Yes. It's normal for you to realize your inner desires and accept them. It took me a long time to accept that I am bisexual. I feel better now

 

Same view here regarding my girlfriend and women generally. Have long been a fan of Bi sex / mm fun and now accept it and enjoy where possible and realise I think we are all / a huge percentage are Bi but just friends who actually experience it & to what extent
I’d say I’m just SEXUAL- though they say that’s - Fluid. As far as labels go - though only find intimacy and sensuality with women. With guys
I’m not into intimacy as much and predominantly it’s all about the cock- mutual wanking and oral and at times I’m prone to non reciprocation if I’m in the mood to suck cock. And like a lotta guys - I reckon my talents rate quite high!... I don’t kiss guys at all although I’m pretty much open to all shapes sizes and nationalities of women, guys have to be Caucasian similar age and straight types and reasonably presented/ avg looks their personality has to be ‘bearable’ at least / common ground / mutual respect if they have a similar rated cock
I’d imagine myself in their company elsewhere & what my thoughts may be & that’ll usually determine if I excuse myself and nothing happens or I blow their cock Til they blow down my throat!

 

Just remember to tell your partner that you are bi and ask her if she has a problem with you being bi.
Remember this when you go to choose somebody get your girlfriend to do all the ground work so that it's a threesome and she doesn't mind sharing it with you.

 

Yes it's normal. I think finding cock attractive is normal for most guys since we like our own why wouldn't we find others attractive as well?

 

Sure, sexuality is a broad spectrum....it's all good!

 

I think you should be worried about how your girlfriend would feel about you liking men sucking your cock. I suspect most women would consider that cheating on them. Maybe work with her on her cock sucking skills.

As for cocks, I love sucking them. I like having mine sucked but if he doesn't want to, that's alright, I'll still suck him. Friendship is OK bur I'm not looking for a relationship or romance with a man. All I'm interested in is what's between his belly button and his thighs. That pretty much rules out kissing and cuddling.

I do expect him to be clean and respective that I suck his cock because I like sucking cocks. I'm not subservient and, while I will do my best to accommodate his desires, I am not his slave. And I expect him to keep his mouth shut about what we do in private. If he has a friend who would like a blowjob, clear it with me first.

 

There isn't any normal. You like what you like. Some people's extent of same sex activity is looking at naked pictures. Some are rarin' to rub up against each other's genitals. Whatever two or more people agree to do that's responsible and consensual is fine.

 

It could be normal, but only you know what feels "normal" to you.
It also sounds like maybe you could be experiencing a bit of homophobia/or guilt because you have a girlfriend.
Or maybe it's neither of those. May you're a total top with guys, and just enjoy another guy's mouth on your cock. Could turn out that if you were to open your mind, that you might truly enjoy topping and fucking another guy's ass

 

"Normal" is just a setting on the washing machine.

 

You seem to be going all out for your girlfriend …

… whereas your girlfriend only lets herself be spoilt by her missionary instead of shedding a little sweat to spoil you with exquisite tongue-and-lip work.

You could try to convince her by informing her that you are thinking of hiring external commercial service providers, but this would cost money. Alternatively, you could hire homosexual and bisexual service providers who will do it for free, but there is a risk that they will seduce you and draw you deeper into the homosexual world.

In both cases, however, there are also medical risks:

Infection Risks for Men Receiving Oral Sex:

• Chlamydia
• Gonorrhea
• Herpes
• Non-Gonococcal Urethritis (NGU)
• Syphilis

If your girlfriend wants to avoid these risks, she should educate herself and make friends with your penis.

Beauty is indeed rare. The crucial question, however, is which category your penis falls into. The good thing about women is that their affection can also relate to the body of the person they love and can thus psychologically neutralise something aesthetically repulsive. Why shouldn't women fight in war? Because men don't want to marry cripples. So take courage.

This case shows how important proper sex education is in schools, and that even the most basic techniques that belong in any sexual curriculum are simply not taught.

Now I'm getting the impression that you want to suck men. In that case you have to fall back on men.

In most countries it is normal to choose an external commercial service provider of the same sex as the main service provider, but there are particularly prudish countries where these services are heavily discouraged by the state, so it is normal there to choose a free homosexual or bisexual service provider.

Does it make a difference whether it is receptive or insertive oral sex? You are the judge.

If you want to take part in the sexual identity games that are extremely popular these days, you can call yourself straight or straight plus, an option that is becoming increasingly popular, or questioning. Charmingly, questioning helps to come across something new, which makes life more interesting.


https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8581765/pdf/fpsyg-12-753954.pdf

 

Well, who on this earth has the authority to decide what is “normal”???
I was somewhere on the internet the other day looking into ancient homosexual practices and came across a picture of an ancient figurine from Peru.
It was a little statue showing a male sitting down (with a hard dick) sucking on the hard dick of a man standing up!
So was that normal back then? Someone wanted to memorialize it in the figurine.
Point being that guys have been sucking other guys cocks for a VERY long time.
I myself found out at fifteen that I could get half the head of my own cock in my mouth. Felt great, looked great, tasted great.
The thing is that made me wonder what it would be like to have a whole dick to suck on. I didn’t find out until I was 19 or 20, discovered that I really liked sucking on a cock that looked like my own, nice cut 6.5 or 7 inches long.
40 years later I am much more accepting of the fact that I love to suck nice looking cocks if they will reciprocate and suck mine (who doesn’t love a great blowjob!).
I’m wondering more what the hang-up is with your lady not wanting to please you fully if she truly does love you.
A word of warning, I’ve heard from very many men that once they actually get past their inhibitions about sucking a cock they actually find out that it’s really fun to do!
You have a lot to think about, I wish you well on your journey and yes, you are normal… whatever that means.
Just remember it is society that dictates what is generally considered “normal”. What’s normal in one society may be punishable by death in another society.
Try getting your dick sucked in Iran or Saudi Arabia, if caught you would be lucky to survive… is THAT normal? I don’t think so.

 

Its certainly quite common, but I think you are at the beginning of a journey. As I was once like that. My ex wife had a very very low sex drive, and I like you had a real desire for blowjobs. I used to identify as straight too. However that constant sexual desire to have my own cock sucked, coupled with the realisation that it is so much more readily available to have a willing mouth of a man, I eventually tried it. At first it was just chatting to guys on kik, then skype with guys and then that turned into me really wanted to try sucking a guy off. But only that. The thought of kissing a guy was not desirable at all. I just wanted his dick in my mouth and that was it. After a while and few hookups to suck mens dicks. I was sucking, fucking, kissing, rimming, giving and receiving all of the above and everything inbetween. I font you might not feel that way now but if you crave affection and sex, you can fulfill that with men and you will learn how over time.