As an older man I prefer older women although I do play with a couple who are 20 years younger than I am. In my experience, older women are better at sex, are less inhibited, can be hungry for different men or women and I find that talking about sex is easier with them. Most of the older women I've been with aren't looking for a long term committment. They want some fun and variety and they want to feel good about themselves. A good friend of mine doesn't have a husband who makes her feel good about her body but she happily sends me boob pics for my admiration and boy, does she get my compiliments. When we do get together, I get to see the rest. Love older women. Now...I dare anyone to define "older"!
My husband is 33 and has loved women in their 40s and 50s since he was like 12. I feel bad hes never gotten to play with one and his time is running out for them to be "older"
Just keep trying. You're a good woman. I have a couple of female friends that give me leads for other girls so a good network is a good thing!
Problem is my "network" is conservative homeschool moms. Which is an amazing thing.. unless you're feeling taboo. Then its not so conducive lol