spanked or be spanked / or switch

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  1. Lovnflman

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    This is one area I have VERY limited experience, and no real desire to. One night me and the Mrs were watching a porn video where the guy is doggy with a woman, and he starts spanking her ass. Hmmmm, may have to try that. So later that night, same position as the vid, and I tentatively smacked my wife’s ass. Surprised she didn’t yelp or anything. So stupid me smacked her ass again, only harder. “OUCH! STOP IT”! Last time I EVER did that!

    Before we had our first MFM, our friend asked me what my wife liked. I told him she’s very sexual and open, but under no circumstances spank her……it would be a mood killer! He was fine with that as he wasn’t interested in that. But we did give her a thorough screwing that night, and on subsequent MFMs.

    I only knew of one woman that loved being spanked. We reconnected years after college, but only over the phone. Eventually lead to some pretty hot phone sex. One night we’re getting at it and, thank goodness for speakers, she is HDAU with a dildo going to town. Then I heard a SMACK, then ANOTHER! “Spank me…..HARDER”! One hand working the dildo, the other with a paddle smacking her ass. Eventually she had what sounded like a shattering orgasm, which set off my own. She commented that her butt was nice and rosey. Later she asked if we were to hook up, would I spank her? Sure! But living several states apart it never happened. Never had sex with her except over the phone. ☎️ She was into some seriously kinky sh*t! Never would have known since she was a married goody two shoes corporate VP. One never knows what lays under that business suit. Too bad this was before Skype and FaceTime. Would have been interesting.

    I always associated spankings with punishment, something I didn’t enjoy. ☺️
     
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  2. Dayna Johnson

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    I associate spankings with punishment too. I just appreciate warranted correction.
     
  3. jball45

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    Both, but I prefer my ass to snap.
     
  4. Scharff

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    I would enjoy having someone watch me spank you. I've been watched while I got spanked and I've been watched spanking someone else. I have a friend who I spank and she's had me video it a couple of times. Not sure who she shares it with but she says that she does. I find that to be a turn on. Love to watch people getting their bottoms red.
     
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  5. kelly19

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    I enjoy being spanked over the knee especially by older men it really turns me on
     
  6. Scharff

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    My favorite way to spank, although I've done many more positions. Hope you got some recently. Details!!
     
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  7. kelly19

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    Mmm yes indeed dressed up like a naughty schoolgirl
     
  8. Scharff

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    Skirt up and panties down for the spanking??? I love that look and I've done it that way. AND...she deserved it.
     
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  9. kelly19

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    I always deserve a good spanking
     
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  10. kelly19

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    Mmm sounds amazing I would love to be watched as an older man spanks my round bare bottom as his big cock gets very hard
     
  11. Scharff

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    I don't know who she shares that video with but she says that she does. I was spanked at a meet once and I've spanked while people watched. Unfortunately she had to keep her panties on and I had to keep my boxers on but you could reveal almost everything. The girl I spank sometimes now is only in private but she'll do it looking at herself in the mirror or in front of the hotel window where she feels that she might be seen. Especially if she's naked which is not always the case. At least when the spanking starts. Skirt up and eithe no panties or panties around her ankles. Naked comes after she's sore.
     
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  12. kelly19

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    Sounds good to me as long as you spank me
     
  13. 6Sailor9

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    Welcome! Bend over!! ;-)
     
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  14. suolsu

    suolsu DM me!

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    All, including punishment.
     
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  15. Very Kinkey

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    My wife hits my ass cheeks & also hits my sac from behind
     
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  16. amb5734

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    I've had my ass smacked fairly hard a few times while being fucked and I made sure to moan with pleasure. I found it ptetty hot.
     
  17. pinoy62

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    I like both ways. but if I had pick one it probably be me doing the spanking.nothing better then a bare bottom across your lap
     
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  18. CarlC

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    We like it as foreplay
     
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  19. Happygolucky51

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    I agree! Both excite me, but I enjoy getting a bright red butt.
     
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  20. TomofGa

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    My wife did it to me last night. Never did that before. I guess what we were doing sparked it. It was a first as well so maybe...
     
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