I have ED and I am taking generic viagra for when I am with my wife. Works like a champ when we are together on the weekends. But, mid week we are both too tired (or she has a cold like she does now) to go at it, I like to mastutbate to blow off some steam. At night, being tired adds to the problem, even with porn I like. I am not about to use a pill for me all alone - they cost too much! (Interestingly, I wake up in the morning many times with a raging erection. Go figure) My wife bought me a vibrating penis stroker to spice up our play. We have yet to give it a go together, but last night I broke it out and tried it. While I didn't get fully hard, it felt really good. I stripped down, broke out some lube, put on my porn and gave it a go. Unlike a Fleshlight which requires you to be erect to penetrate it, I just played it over my cock. With an open design that allows you to squeeze it to control the pressure, it works well on semi-erect cock. Those vibrations were wonderful. Before too long, I had a really nice orgasm - even without being fully hard. While this is not what I am used to, it definitely worked for me. Those vibrating strokers can be had for about $30 online or in stores, so it's not a huge investment.
I do not have an ED issue but thinking of toys I would recommend a penis pump with a masturbation sleeve. It will make you hard and get you off.
As a diabetic I can't det it up like I used to, late 70s, I rarely jerk off but when I do it's with a flaccid penis, I find cumming from a soft cock feels more intense, I just do it which is not very often but what the heck I nearly pulled myself inside out for over 60 years, oh I did cum this morning, great.
At 70 I sometimes have ED issues. On those occasions, I use a cock ring which works great to get hard and stay hard. I also enjoy those vibrating strokers.
When I first got diagnosed with diabetes I had ED issues. Tried a lot of things and all worked somewhat well. If I didn't have a partner to do me, I liked using a cock ring and some kind of pussy type toy. My fave was some cheap one that looked like fun and did the job better than the more expensive ones. I used pills and shots. The shots were awesome since I would stay hard even after I released which made for all kinds of extra fun. Age plays a big factor but getting the diabetes under control and not being afraid to experiment with toys and supplements to find out what works best was my solution. In the long run, nothing beats a good mouth!
Late 50s, triple erection-killer of Type 2, high BP and antidepressants. I wake up hard occasionally, but Viagra, Cialis are no help. I masturbate 3-4x a week while flaccid and still get the same excitement from an orgasm.
I have used them and a vibrating sleeve and always found them really Great I don't have ED issues but when I'm tired on in a lot of pain I don't always get a fully hard, and I have found when I cum after a semi flaccid wank I do find it more intense
I have ed from meds (tamsilsosin, sertraline, propranalol). If I stroke or play I slowly get semi hard but as soon as I stop I can watch myself quickly go soft. Other times not hard at all. Occasionally I can cum even soft & over all I am liking all this. But I am into ruined orgasm & orgasn denial. I want a partner(s) I can pleasure even if I don't get hard. In fact would like to find a way to help insure I don't get hard at all so then the focus would be on orally or analy pleasuring the other and not me at all...denying me but giving the other a lot of pleasure.
I don't know that I have ED. But over the past three years, my penis has become more... let's say "discerning." It takes specific turn-ons to get me erect or to make me cum. The simple fact that a nude woman is going to have sex with me isn't enough to get me rock hard off the bat. And same for intercourse. I'm not going to climax just from going in and out of a vagina. Blah blah blah... Point is, I've found that vibrators are immensely satisfying no matter the state of my penis. And, in fact, work better when I'm soft just because it's easier to hit the right spots since my penis doesn't move around and roll away from the vibrator like it does when hard. I'm talking about traditional vibrators made for women. Cumming is beside the point. Simply holding it against the right spot feels incredibly erotic and stimulating and makes me so horny in a way that I enjoy the sensation of both the vibrations, but also the sensation of being that horny. Sometimes, I'm actually bummed when it makes me cum. I highly recommend dropping a dime on the Lovense DOMI 2. Hold that against the ridge of your penis' helmet and you won't give two shits about getting hard or having an orgasm. And your wife will have plenty watching you. Women find it extremely erotic to watch me use a "female" sex toy. At first it's just interesting. But after a bit, they start getting turned on and have to admit it's so novel and gender bending that it verges on kinky. At least in my experience.
