You don't want to kiss your friend, but you will suck his cock

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  1. KDaddy23

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    I see it as personal preference more than some kind of expectation or "this is how guys have sex." I know that porn shows a lot of guys kissing and, hell, I've been with gay dudes who didn't like or want to kiss, which was fine with me - but we should never take porn as a "primer" for having sex/being intimate with another man - but this, too, is just my three cents worth.
     
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  2. LowHangers

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    Kissing other men has never been something I planned to do, I have in the heat of the moment, but much prefer to have his cock in my mouth. I'd show my intimacy towards him by swallowing his cum.
     
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  3. topper

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    My wife asked a similar question but understood that I feel kissing is loving and intimate, compared to lustful sex. She told me how much she likes watching me suck and get sucked. Our friends felt the same way, because it was Sexual Lust and understood that it had nothing to do with loving tenderness.
     
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  4. KDaddy23

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    I'd say that me and any friend didn't decide to get together so we can kiss: We're here to suck cock. I still have a problem figuring out how kissing is more intimate than having his dick and he's pumping cum down your throat. Is it loving? Sure, with people who are in love - and all sex is lustful - just wanted to add that little fact. Still a personal preference but again, yeah: I'll suck his soul out through his dick; wouldn't kiss him for all the ramen in Japan.
     
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  5. thepapasmurph

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    I am the exact and complete opposite of you guys... I feel for people real quick. And that feel is either good or bad. I feel... I don't think, if you understand my words. I can connect with someone in an intimate way very easily. Kissing, touching - by the way, touching someone's face is something I do. It is a natural expression for me... my hand to your face, as if I were going to slap you, but instead I cup your face in my hands and embrace it. I look into your eyes. And I kiss you, if you'll allow it.
    Many years ago, I had to learn the hard way that not everyone likes this. And I have to respect your boundaries if you set them. One time, I was out with friends at a bar, and there was one guy that was talking to me quite personally about some things on his mind. I felt like we were really connecting - and not in a sexual way. At one point, as other friends were talking right next to me, he said something that elicited a response from me... I placed my hand on his face... and his response to me? He cold cocked me in the face... and I went down like a sack of potatoes. My other friends were all over him, criticizing him and questioning him for hitting me. (and helping me up). But, you know what - it did teach me a lesson, but it didn't stop me from being me, and expressing myself in that way when I wanted to and when I thought it would be received well.
     
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  6. KDaddy23

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    Oh, I'm not without feelings - I just don't believe they're as important as everyone believes them to be and more so when you don't have to like men like that in order to have sex with them; you still just have to want to and so does he and if he's Mr. Right Now, okay. Some guys who are, in fact, Mr. Right material do not want to be Mr. Right; some are clearly not as emotionally connected with themselves and as you appear to be - and there's nothing wrong with that.

    But I'll still suck my friend's dick and wouldn't kiss him - and contrary to what might be popular belief, there's nothing wrong with this, either. And if anyone think there is, all I'm going to say is that the Matrix has you.
     
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  7. newdist

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    Absolutely ! My wifes sisters husband Rod ! He and i have been naked together with our wives who were not naked at a secluded beach ! There was nothing sexual going on just two guys nude with wives there ! I kept staring at his cock because it looked exzacktly like my cock ,same size and he was also cut ! My wife had once told me that her sister had never sucked her mans cock and i wondered how she could resist ! We,Rod and i, were strolling along the beach side by side just shooting the shit and talking about this and that and i kept glancing over at his cock ! It was just swinging forth and back with each step and i thought about how it would feel in my mouth knowing that he had not felt lips on it for years ! Well it was not long and i could feel my cock start to engorge as we walked and talked ! I think he glanced over and saw my half hard cock but did not say anything ! Eventually the swelling went down and we carried on ! I have often tried to think of a way to get him so drunk that he would pass out and i could play with his cock and balls . They are both bad alchoholics and i would love to get them both drunk and convince her to let me suck his cock while she watched !
     
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  8. thepapasmurph

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    @newdist Why don't you just bring it up with him? Tell him your wife told you that her sister never sucked him off and ask him how he feels about that... maybe as you talk and drink, the mood will shift, and you can get your opportunity to do it with him. What the hell, why not? It has nothing to do with anything other than feeling good... keep it simple. he's your brother-in-law - who better?
     
  9. BiGuySW

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    There are different types of kissing, and that applies to both women and men. Sometimes it happens out of lust and sometimes it happens out of love.

    It's way beyond comprehension for most men to kiss another man out of love, but when it happens in a complimentary situation, it's just as moving and memorable as it is with a woman.
     
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  10. thesantos29

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    In general, I'm not into kissing guys that I play with. They have to be super femme and soft. I like soft faces and soft lips.

    Now, cocks on the other hand should be hard.
     
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  11. biboroguy12

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    Same here
     
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  12. MustacheMan2020

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    This is me. I would suck their dick but not comfortable (for now) with the kissing. It doesn't do it for me. However, this can change with experience.
     
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    Depending on the mood and the guy, kissing can be hot and a lot of fun but just getting together to swap blow jobs is great to.
     
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  14. thesantos29

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    I don't actually have a friend that I play with, but, it would be nice to have a friend to suck. I'm not into kissing guys.
     
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  15. Spudz

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    I wouldn't kiss on the lips but definitely kiss his neck, nipples, cock, and balls.
     
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  16. KDaddy23

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    I wholeheartedly agree; I'd kiss all of those things but not his lips - and some guys wouldn't let me do that - but we're here to suck each other off so let's be about that and save the "lovey-dovey" stuff for some other time.
     
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  17. Msh1313

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    I’d also kiss his ass cheeks
     
  18. Spudz

    Spudz Northern Arkansas

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    I would like to kiss his ass cheeks with my balls.
     
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  19. BiGuySW

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    If I really like a lover, I will kiss them no matter what their gender might be.
     
  20. biboroguy12

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    It did for me, made the man to man experience come full circle. Everything else had been done
     
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