Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ?

Communicate this with her. Invite her to give suggestions to help her with her inhibitions.

 

My wife loves when I play with her tits and clit at the same time. She’ll masturbate me while I work away. As her stroke rate increase on my cock….I know she’s about to cum. I usually try to hold off until she’s orgasmed three to four times before I explode.
I can only recall penetrating my wife once in the last year or so. She initiated this, but I think she’d happily continue without penetration for another year ‍♂️
I’m fine with that. It works for us so that’s all that matters.

 

Sorry, but I think it's hot AF when they do that.

 

Simple put… It feels good to them and enhances (fullfills) their needs.

 

As has been discussed some women do not always have vaginal orgasms. My wife enjoys oral stimulation and then penetration. Clitoral stimulation when I am in her is too sensitive. My fwb enjoys cumming multiple times with oral then vaginally when she cums multiple times before I unload in her. My fb enjoys oral and then riding me for quite some time and cumming loudly several times before I mount her where she cums again a few times before I do. The many women I have been fortunate to be with over time each have different ways of experiencing the act. I love when then play with their clits. The key for me is to stay hard for quite some time which fortunately I have been able to. It’s like edging because when I do cum it is a most enjoyable release.

 

I'd ask, why would they all not do it? I don't get the type who lie there, providing the appropriate hole while wanting him to get it over with

 

Most reputable studies for years show that 64-68% of women can’t orgasm with just vaginal penetration.

 

I would think that there are multiple reasons.
They are not getting enough stimulation from their partner's penis during intercourse
Their partner cums too fast and they are trying to make sure that they reach orgasm before he cums
Their partner cums faster than they do. So, they are trying to assist in quickening their own orgasm so they both can cum at the same time
Their partner takes too long to get them to orgasm and they are trying to get there quicker

 

We must be almost twins yes for warm-up if needed but....

The big thing with me is that I love rubbing my clit (and around it) when I'm alone, but when I'm with a guy or guys I don't really want to distract myself from the ways that THEY are going to please me.

And are you guys forgetting about our g-spot? An old term apparently but it's that area between pussy and ass that a dick can set on fire. Vaginal orgasm. This is also why, as I mentioned elsewhere, I love it when my baby slips part of his finger or thumb in my ass while he's stroking my pussy with his dick. OOOH my fucking goodness.

And oh just by the way, men apparently have that 'g-spot' as well. Right guys? ^.^

 

The female G-spot is closely connected to the clit nerves. I love massaging it to make my wife cum.

 

Yes, twins it is! I am accurate with my English, but i wish I could write in that hot, colorful style that you have! . Also, a dick in the pussy and ass at the same time does g-spot for me.

 

Yes indeed!

 

Yeah you know that I have a little clue about that

Your English is great Jen, better than a lot of native English speakers! Baby love tells me that I could be a writer, but you remember my comment about 'perfection'? The enemy of getting stuff done

 

Well just fyi, I love that phrase that you've used more than once, 'orgasmic trance'. That is so descriptive of when it's really REALLY getting good

 

I’m trying to get a lot of complicated thought out in writing and I find it difficult to find that “perfection” as well, language of course can impact deep thought and my brain can be a lift that randomly stops at all floors in the building which causes me to ramble. But, I have and a lot of downtime of late so plenty of time to work on writing!

 

Yes, of course! But that was not my own phrase. I was trying to find out what was going on with me. I would have regular orgasm and then I noticed it would continue into a prolonged euphoria after a particularly intense one, or after multiple orgasms. So I started researching myself and talking with my doctor and I chose “Orgasmic Trance” to describe it. I’ve also seen “Sex Trance” used.

 

Now see there, you can be just as creative as me. Great metaphor!
(And I'm a little bit multilingual so I know what you mean.)

'Sex trance', oh yes..... reminds me that there are a couple of trance/house/techno songs that can always get me in the mood. But I'm a hopeless and sometimes annoying music freak.

 

I love it when my wife reaches down between us to play with her clit while we fuck. It's a huge turn-on for us. Especially when she says, "I gotta jack my cock off". When people are having sex communicate, share what YOU like. Together you can have the best sex ever.