Have You Ever Orgasmed Without Ejaculating?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by straightma1e, Jan 17, 2023.

  1. Fisherman88

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    I totally agree it takes me longer in the morning when i wake-up. Unfortunately 99% of the time I orgasm no semen whatsoever.
     
  2. HarryD420

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    When I reached my late 60s, I would frequently orgasm without ejaculation but sometimes I'd have multiple orgasms fairly quickly. After my wife died three years ago, at 75, I started dating a woman who was unbothered when I told her about my sexual problems. She had long been wanting a Tantric partner so we began practicing Tantric and slow sex. Wow!

    With Tantric sex, ejaculation is not the goal though it can happen. We would make love for an hour or two at a time with gentle movements and feeling really connected. I had my first full body orgasm with her which was unlike any orgasm I'd experienced before. Every once in a while I'd ejaculate while we were making love, but it did not produce an orgasm and did not end the session.
     
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  3. Fisherman88

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    Interesting I would like to know more about this Tantric Sex I have never hear of it. You can pm me if you want.
     
  4. buzzgunner

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    I started masturbating back when I was 4 or 5 years old. At that time, I had very strong orgasms, but no ejaculation at all. That didn't start until I'd almost hit puberty
     
  5. Doug22

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    Have same issue unless I really take my time
     
  6. Fisherman88

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    Same here only if I edge for over an hour I get a very small amount of cum.
     
  7. James Norwood

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    Men orgasm and ejaculate, usually tat the same time, but orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. It is perfectly normal to have an orgasm without ejaculating and to ejaculate without having an orgasm. Stress,anxiety, for example will often result in an ejaculation without orgasm.
     
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  8. Twogigahz

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    To be able to separate orgasm from ejaculation would be the golden goose....no refractory period. That's why I like edging so much...it's like multiple dry almost-orgasms until I decide to finish up or pick it back up later..
     
  9. Andy Schumer

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    When you feel like you are close, stop the stimulation. With practice you get closer and still feel the orgasm. The closer, the stronger the orgasm.
    And you feel the pulsations, throbbing, pressure.
     
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  10. Twogigahz

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    The trick is to be able to hold it right there on the edge for a few seconds....edging is a fine art.
     
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  11. Don Cockerel

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    Yes
     
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  12. Fisherman88

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    Newbie here when I masturbate I get a nice orgasm but do not ejaculate because of combination of my meds and my age
     
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  13. straightma1e

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    Just did it again a few days ago. My partner and I began by doing 69. Then when we switched to PIV cumming was not to be. I got tired and I laid back on the bed. Next thing I know she has my cock in her hands slowly stroking it. That felt so out of this world. Suddenly, my body reacts to this and I go into orbit with my arms and legs shaking and hands grasping at thin air. I couldn't even talk. Even though I didn't shoot semen from my cock I felt absolutely fantastic.
     
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  14. Longzi

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    Orgasms and ejaculation are two different things, and feel different ways. To orgasm without ejaculating does not give you the release when you cum, but it does send shockwaves through your body and when you can unlock that it’s great. Because once you figure it out you can have multiples before you cum, which is awesome.
     
  15. Micheal9

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    I’ve ruined plenty of edging sessions from having a orgasm without ejaculating. Maybe ruined isn’t the right word but you know what I mean. I’ve set up for hours and hours of edging before, then get into it for a half hour-hour or so then take it just a little to far. I’m able to stop the ejaculation but not the orgasm.

    Then I feel satisfied and still have a nice load to blow at a later time.
     
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  16. bbw-lover71

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    I have I started masturbating at about 7 and my orgasams were dry I have orgasmed before ejaculating while masturbating, a few times and I have also ejaculated before I have orgasmed.
     
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  17. Fisherman88

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    I started around age 12 and was married at 21 (big mistake) wife was not really into sex maybe every six weeks if I was lucky. Long story short I masturbated 4/5 times a week until age 70 now maybe once a week and all my orgasms are dry.
     
  18. SantaCruzRob

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    On several occasions my wife tied my hands behind my back while I was naked. She would bring me close to orgasm, and then stop touching me until my orgasm passed. Then she would start again.

    There were times I would ejaculate a little before the orgasm would just fade. Torture but a very sweet torture.:p
     
  19. Micheal9

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    I have, when I was edging I stopped myself from blowing my load but still had an orgasm.
     
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  20. Fisherman88

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    That sounds like something I would like to try. Not sure I could get my wife to try that but it sounds like fun.
     
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