Well... in defense of @Intrepid37 I don't know how many guys would say they'd find their wife's mother wank material... and some of us might even say worse than that! I actually liked my MIL but I can't even think about her this way without getting a little gag reflex - nothing against her, personally. hahaha.
I've often heard it said that if you want to know what your wife/female companion will look like in later life, just look at her mother. It's true in relation to about 70% of my former GFs so I reckon, a lot of guys have thought sexually about their MIL.
Well, @Bazz888 I was in denial, because You are right - daughter looks more like her mother with every passing year, and I did not go there when maybe I should have... but then again, my father keeps staring at me out of my bathroom mirror.
lol. I haven't had that mirror experience yet and I don't know what I would do, if I did. I actually don't use mirrors much though. I shave in the shower - I know where my face is lol - and the big flow of water reduces the need for shaving foam etc. I fix my hair (if needs be), in the car mirror where I can only see my hair and not my face.
thankfully i am mixed nationality.... i do not have to worry about seeing or hearing my father or mother come out of me lol.
So if you like the mother, but she is unavailable, do you attempt to date her daughter and hope that getting her off the settee once in a while will help reduce her from 17 stone. You could always woo her with chat up lines like, "You could very well pass for 35, at dusk with the light behind you".
There's a simple lesson here, always have another account on your device if you might need to share it. It can be a guest account. This way they can't access your files. Be sure to check what they did with your device to feel safe again.
I don't think she is over reacting. We all have different kinks but I take it she obviously did not try seduce you either. It's probably peevish or weird to wank over your mother in law. Is she hot, is she a MILF? Its ok to share hers pics here but it's probably not ok for her son in law to have her in the wank bank section.
I think you revealed a lot when you originally asked if MIL was overreacting, but left out the very most critical details. The impression you give is that you’re either a player who selects facts to your own benefit, or you don’t understand what facts are relevant in family relationships. That said, she was wrong to invade your privacy, assuming you’ve not left out other details that might show she didn’t intentionally do this. Also, you have poor computer security practices that need addressing. For example I think all computer operating systems allow creation of a guest user who wouldn’t be able to access your files. As for whether it was wrong to have these pics, everyone is entitled to their own private kinks and fantasies, but your lack of candor makes me wonder if you didn’t secretly hope she found them. That alone isn’t wrong but also reveals that you might need to work on your skills in sizing people up. Unless you enjoy the family drama, in which case things have apparently worked out fine.
I'm going to question the premise that someone asked to use your laptop, in her own house, where she must have electronics of her own. I mean, if she wanted to know whether rain was in the forecast, and she didn't want to go get her phone or her own tablet/laptop/etc., she'd just ask you to look it up for her. In any event, she wouldn't end up in your files. People sharing a house, whether permanently or as guests, may share a printer or a large-screen television, but they don't share laptops. Forget about the reaction. The premise that it even happened seems contrived.