With a woman I like her to be on top. With a man I prefer to be the one on top. I only finished in someones mouth when (s)he agreed. But since I had prostate surgery, my orgasms are dry, so I can finish in the other ones mouth anyway. If my partner is a man, he's welcome to deliver wherever he wants
Just the other day she climbed up on top. Put her legs on either side of my head and lowered her ass to my face. I know she had my cock in her mouth but I wasn't paying much attention to that. I had my nose in her ass and my tongue in her pussy at the time. It was wonderful.
Male/Male and Female/Male, more male. Top and bottom. Always mouth. I won't tell you anything, they are all too shameless!
Female/ Male I much prefer to be on top. I always finish with a guy shooting his hot load in my mouth and savoring it before I swallow.
M/F; her on top...especially if there's a third pumping his cock into her while I suck her clit, perhaps with some cocksucking intermissions as a bonus. Can be awkward, and hard on the neck. M/M; top, bottom, or side, but it can be awkward too, in which a straightforward blowjob is often preferable. There's been a few times at nude beaches that I've been surprised when a guy's dropped down over me and taken my cock in his mouth; I've always obliged. I love to swallow, but not everyone does. When I cum I have the courtesy to honor their preference.
Male/Female, with my partner or FWB, I prefer to be on the bottom, licking and drinking as her juices drip into my mouth whilst I cum into hers. Also enjoy the feel of her breasts pressed against my body. We both have fantastic orgasms like this.
Me on the bottom with a tasty female friend on top. I love looking up at the beautiful pussy and licking the whole thing!
My wife and and I both love her on top for the many many reasons others here have stated. I do love lying back looking up at her glorious view. Also fun is after sex doing 69 her on top for many other reasons (drip drip drip). What a sight to behold! She prefers to face sit then lean over to attack me. I enjoy the messiness of it all and get into it more so if she rides my face. With a pillow under her head, my wife does occasionally enjoy when we flip it so that I stay on my hands and knees over her. Tougher sort of being upside down for me but oh so worth it. She says she likes the view as well, explaining it in such a wonderfully descriptive way.
If she can get comfortable on top and can spread her legs wide and settle her pussy down on my mouth, it's a great position. She can grind and I can lick and suck and she still has control over how she takes my cock. I do get short of breath sometimes as she gets serious about her climax and my wet face afterwards is quite a sight!
The shortness of breath issue goes away once you learn to breathe through your ears . Keep practicing and one day you'll thank me .