First time in a gay sauna

The idea of visiting a sauna both excites and terrifies me. I'd love to be able to play with multiple men and have them fuck me, or even just watch, but I'm too scared of catching any STIs - even if I'd just be watching there's still the risk of crabs and monkey pox.

 

Happy in my marriage, but my wife doesn`t want to have sex anymore. Brothels are soul destroying (IMO) and wanking alone is well, lonely... I experimented with sucking/ fucking as a teen and loved it, life got in the way and now here I am. I recently lost a lot of weight and feel good about myself for the first time in ages. Just before Xmas, I took the plunge and went to a sauna in Melbourne Australia. The couple of hours I spent there, opened my eyes and changed my life. I got there early out of nervousness, got my key, towel etc. and found my way to the spa. I sat there for ages wondering why am I here, what do I do? Once it started to get busy, I became more confident. Lots of really hot guys and lots just like me. I cruzed the maze for a while and got no positive looks, 10 more min, I thought and I`ll go home, this isn`t for me. I walked past a guy, and I felt the connection. He disappeared around a corner, and I just stopped. I waited and he came back. we locked eyes and dropped towels. It was electric, we kissed and fondled. He was fit, hot and hung. I said, "what do we do now?" he took me to a room and told me to keep the door open. He asked if I was top or bottom, I said top, he said okay. I loved his cock in my mouth, it was the most natural feeling I had ever had. He wanted me to go bareback in him, but I was too scared. With a condom on I slid into him and had one of the best orgasms that I`ve ever had. We kissed again and made small talk, "I`m going to cruze for a bit, do you want to meet up again later?" , sure, I said and went off to shower. Sadly, I lost my confidence again, got dressed and left. I think about it every day and given the opportunity to go back, I`M THERE...... I encourage anyone who wants to try it, to do so. Go slow, let your instincts guide you and play safe.

 

I finally went to Club Orlando, a gay gym/sauna, last November.

I have known about it for 15 years, but never had the courage to go. You know... the fear of the unknown.

I met a guy online and we agreed to meet there one morning. At least I wouldn't be alone.

I had a great time. The jacuzzi, pool and dry sauna were soo relaxing. The dark rooms have TV's with porn, gloryholes, and plenty of space to sit.

Everyone was respectful. It didn't feel awkward or dangerous.

I've been another time and plan on going again.

 

Did you make a lust connection with this guy?

 

You bet. He was actually more shy than I was eventhough he had been there before.
I went into one of the dark rooms and started jacking off. About 5 minutes later, he joined me and we stroked each other.
A great day.