Announcing your climax

I always let my partner know when I am going to cum. Some preferred me not to cum inside them and asked that I cum on a part of their body. Some wanted to finish the job by hand or in other ways.

 

Flagged for her option is great!

 

My wife and I were swapping with another couple Friday night and she certainly had no objection to me cummng deep in her. She heard my groans and saw it in my face as I unload. She knew she did her job to satisfy me.

 

If I'm getting a blowjob from someone new, I tell her when I'm close. She can choose where to take it. Sometimes the old "tap on the back of the head" does the trick. But if I'm with one of my regulars, I don't say anything. They all know by the feel of the cock in their mouths as it gets fatter and a little longer that I'm almost ready and they can do what they're comfortable with.

 

I don't tell her. She doesn't need to tell me. I can read all the physical signs that she is about to let go with an orgasm.

 

We can always tell when the other is about to cum, but with that said, we're very vocal. Being vocal just adds to the experience. It's fun. It's a real turning. That's the ONLY time my wife will say certain words. That excites me even more.

 

It is lovely to be vocal and be aware when the other person is ready cum. I know when my wife is about to cum and I will assist her to orgasm intensly by fingering her clit, suckling her nipples and massaging her breasts and deep kissing while my cock is still inside. Once she has orgasmed fully, she wants me to cum inside her, and she will massage my balls to increase the sensation for me. Needless to say that I cum so intensly inside her with lots of moaning and kissing. She would not let me withdraw immediately but we both relax in that position for about 10 minutes. During this time we talk about how we performed in satisfying each other.

 

Sex with my first wife from 21-27 years old was like this 4-5 times a week. Best six years of my life.

 

When I first masturbated as a youth, I spontaneously made a noise moaning and saying thing like 'Oh my god'. However, I trained myself not to because of the worry that I might b overheard. This fed into sex with girlfriends but when I met my fabulous lover she was vocal and encouraged to be too. It was a sexual epiphany. Nothing is more wonderful than to both feel and hear your partners pleasure and expressing and vocalising yourself enhances your pleasure whether you are having sex with someone or masturbating. I often talk to myself whilst I am stroking and either make appreciative sounds as I cum or speak how I am feeling.

 

I was fucking this beautiful Asian woman the other day. She on top and me thrusting upward. It was okay but not building. She then leaned closer to my ear and started whispering for me to fuck her. That helped. So much so I started talking vulgar and she followed. She then started to blow softly across my ear. "That's it! I gonna cum!" I bellowed.

 

Yes, always. No stories.

 

Always, gives me an extra kick

 

I usually give her fair warning when I'm inside of her but don't want to cum in whatever hole I'm in, I gotta tell her so I can pull out and cum on her elsewhere. Some girls love hearing it though, especially the way their partner's voice sounds when they're on the brink, so with those girls I always make a point to be more vocal before and as I cum. Everyone's different. I have a girlfriend who has fun with surprises too.

 

I am a vocal, but not loud. My wife and I play with other couples. I can hear her moan with pleasure and she wants every drop they pump in her. I also tell the woman I’m about to burst. The women usually wants to know. It makes them feel like they did their job to make me feel like a man and cum in them.

 

I mostly do when relationships are new. My girlfriend, when we were 20,would never say she was or did. I asked, she thought it is rude to ask and she doesn't like to say. She didn't need to once, sitting on me, juices squirted everywhere.
I did with my first wife, by my grunts and sighs. Eventually she would take the initiative then and make me pull out so she didn't lie in a wet patch.
A couple of one might stands I did, and received the reaction I wanted. Grunts and sighs and Aaah.
To one charming lady at a bi orgy who just invited me on her to fuck her. When I was about to come I said, "Here's a big load for you, NNghh" Two long jets she received with a sigh and a smile.

 

My wife and I communicate through the many different sounds we make. She knows when I am close and I know when she is going to explode.